I totally agree with you Gordo and you know that I used to spend a lot of time in the chatroom and really enjoyed, as a retired escort I used to find it very relaxing to just chill there, at the beginning i used to get a lot of comments from punters as to where I was and where was my profile etc, but for the most part once they got to know me and knew I was retired then it was fine and the banter was something i came to enjoy on a nightly basis, however it changed and in a bad way, there were users coming in with fake names and were trying to mess people about , smutty comments I can deal with I just swat them away like flies , but when unstable people start playing mind games and saying they know who you are, where you live etc then I knew it was time to go.
I know some of them were only chancing , but one in particular got way too close for comfort , so it ceased being a chatroom for me .
Perhaps tighter controls may help .
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Milfminx