Patricia, I don't want you or vampirejackie to take what I said the wrong way, you are fantastic here and I think when VJ settles into her new role she will be great (fingers crossed) also, I'm just annoyed of the small mindedness of some people that they feel the need to run to mammy for the stupidest of things, honestly these people must of got wrapped in cotton wool and hugged way too much when they were kids.. honestly sometimes this place is a kindergarden..
Patricia (08-07-10)
i'd post a picture of a toddler throwing its toys out of the pram but we cant post pictures of kids anymore
see you next tuesday
What else would you call it? Im not saying i was forced to aplogise in the sense of something being done to me if i didnt. I am not sayign that and want to make it clear to ppl here that E- I did not force me to apologise or else.
The issue here with me is one of principle. This guy complained about me ,and did the same thign himself in his thread. He said i offended an escort (who hadnt even read it) when i simple said that i do not believe that she enjoys french kissing all of her clients and i still stand over that statement.He yet goes on and says that an escort saying she just kisses her bf is wrong and an excuse. How can this guy complain and keep a straight face?
So again i will make it clear E-I did not force me to apologise with a threat of any kind. However E- I has let me down by not seeing my side of the coin. I could go on about this and that ,about posts and threads and all sorts of goofy stuff but the fact remians things wouldnt be the same from here on out for me.
Westside.
benin (08-07-10)
Do you know I haven't read the complaint or the thread that the complaint was about? That's because there is too much going on here for me to manage these message boards. I'm doing all this other stuff and then I'm coming on here and I'm trying to keep up but I can't, there are always 50 threads I'm meant to have read I haven't and 500 PMs waiting to be read that I still haven't found time to read. People think I'm disrespecting them by not looking at everything myself, but I just can't do it all. I could never sleep and I still wouldn't have looked at everything I'd like to look at in a day. This is why I can't manage this message board personally, I simply can't do it anymore. So we have vampirejackie started and another manager starting on Monday. You shouldn't take E-I not seeing your side of the coin so badly here. All that's happening is that I can't keep up with this message board so vampirejackie and the other manager are looking after things. I'm not seeing your side of it as I'm too busy talking to 10 new IT staff all this week trying to get stuff sorted out there to see what's going on here properly. vampirejackie is only in the door so she is not seeing everything as she's trying to get to grips with hundreds of new things all the time. So what I'm saying is, feel like E-I is a disorganised mess as it is (though we are trying to get organised) and be annoyed with us for that, but don't take this as a personal slight as it isn't. This is not a question of how much you are respected and valued here as you are greatly respected and valued by me, by staff, by other site helpers, and by a sizeable chunk of the community.
I dont think Westside should leave over this but we are all afraid that this website will be moderated to death everyone will be gone if it does ksteve would want to get a sense of humour you've only let yourself down man...