Originally Posted by
Westsidex
And how does a therapist do his work again? You dont know what meditation is either because it has nothing to do with dwelling on anything. In fact its single mindedness.
With me its like this. I will go up against shit in life but im fucked if anything will knock me. Any probs or shit i had and will have in my life i simply deal with it or forget it whichever suits me better.The best example of anyone dealing with shit was my father who hadnt an easy life at all. It would have being simple for this guy who had to rear three stubborn cunts of kids by himself to feel miserable, it would have being easy for him to feel miserable when he was in intensive care for nine weeks and given little chance of surviving and it would have being easy for him to feel miserable when he was dying of cancer 20 years later.Yet not once did i ever hear this man complain,or get down or let his humour or smile disappear.It was always chin up and fuck ahead with him. There are others like this too. I only use this as the best eg that i can think of.
Sure some are dealt a hard hand in life and i would personally help any of those ppl out if they needed it but alot of ppl need to learn to help themselves and understand that shit happens sometimes and when it does you have a choice of whether to do the best you can with the hand your dealt or fall aprt and it really is that simple.I could think of lots of reasons why my life might suck right now but i could also think of just as many reasons why my life is fantastic.Guess which ones i dwell on?
Westside.