Originally Posted by
Violette
I tend to be a bit more male about my relationships. I detest clingy men, nothing will drive me up the wall more than some man wanting to hang around with me. AAARRRGGGG!! I am the GF that is kicking his ass out the door and telling him to go spend some time with the fellas. I really don't need someone about cluttering up my space and cutting up my peace. But I am a totally different kettle of fish. I would be quite happy for the duration of any relationship for my partner to have his own place, the last thing I want is someone moving in with me and I having to share my bathroom with them, which means as soon as they get comfortable they stop flushing the toilet and start leaving undies on the floor, and expecting me to do their laundry! I am not their mother! Which is unfortunately what a lot of men are looking for.
Then in the beginning of the relationship, they are ok with what I do, but as soon as feelings start on their side, I must stop. To which I reply, "So you can give me XXX euros a month?" Mouth drops, and another set of issues arises. Now not only can they not handle my job, they can't handle the fact I earn more that them. FFS! This is why I have a rotating roster of gentlemen I see, none bores me too much, and I am genuinely happy to see them because none are under foot, and they all earn more than me.