Anyone feel like this?

[Westsidex]

hi westie
first you are who you are, you can not judge all by the actions of a few, our openess might get you hurt by others once in awhile but, think of the joy you have giiven others by your actions, stay the way you are, its what makes westie. the world is full of arseholes lets not add to their ranks

I wouldnt call it hurt. I wouldnt call it manipulation either because there was no intention on either side. She wasnt out for to do me in and i wasnt out for freebies or shit like that or a gf or a wife etc.So it wasnt a case of manipulation.In fact she was good to me at times too but i think she crossed the line.Maybe its because we lost touch and in her own mind she thinks i have something against her.Nope sometimes in life ppl just drift.

Westside.

[pablo_23]

I know the situation that you help and don't get back at least aprreciation. Best thing i to do is just be yourself and move on. Takers are the worst type of people,they just get used to the situation that someone always will be for them, that they not even think to change their shitty situation. What for? if he/she can always go to him or her.

[pablo_23]

I'm hoping the reward will be great in heaven(7 virgins .....oh wrong religion for me)

7 virgins??sounds good. I've never had a virgin...

[Ric Hardgear]

You started this thread to vent your frustration at two individuals,actually two women,only two women,there are a lot more peple who know you,. your mates ,work colleagues ,familly,Im sure they appreciate the kindness you have shown them ,so I wouldnt let them down by changing and turning your back on them when they will need you in the future.

[BitchHunter]

Lately i have being thinking quite a bit about the way i am with other ppl. Now i dont consider myself a gent and i dont consider myself any better or worse than anyone else but i am very helpful and have always being there for anyone who needed it. All they had to do was phone, mail or whatever and i am there. Now im not a crawler or a soft arse but i am a big big help if someone had probs of any kind.

Heres what im thinking. Anytime the shoe has being on the other foot, i dont have those same luxuries. Anytime, i have ever being stuck or going through a hard time ,i never had anyone who has being there. Now anyone who knows me would tell you that "he doesnt need help" etc but just because i dont cry or just because i dont let things get me down doesnt mean it would be nice not to have someone wonder is everything ok with him.

Whats brought this up are two things,

(1) i have someone ,a former escort who will and always will be nameless here ,odd with me over what i do not know. Have know idea,yet this girl was through some pretty tough times lately and again i was always there if she texted or whatever despite the fact that i barely know her and have never met face to face.

(2) A thai girl i knew.A girl that i have helped out very well and being very good to, yapping to ppl spreading lies about me behind my back. Her friend is the same but she is only like that because i didnt respond to her advances.But this other brat, i never did anything for her, for a wife, a gf, a blow job ,a freebie etc.Yet she says lies about me to ppl that dont even fuckin know me.This bitch says lies about me not paying for her or something , i remember the day well, the same day i dropped her up to Argos to buy a heater cause her own one was broken.

Now dont get me wrong,at the end of the day ,i dont give two fucks but i really have evaluated big time, helping ppl out like this again.

Alot of women asked me and find it hard to believe that im single and they wonder why. Now they know. Its because very few ppl have looked behind the image and the exterior to notice that there is actually a human being in there the same as everyone else.

I couldnt be bothered my hole helping ppl out anymore. While i understand you help ppl out of the goodness of your heart with no expectation of thanks its fuck all good to anyone if nothing comes out of it and im not talking about some bullshit like sex, im talking about basic appreciation at least.

Im not saying treat ppl like shit but i am saying to step well back and let them feel the water themselves.

deep but would go way deeper,
Westside.

Okay, first, you say you "don't give two fucks" but clearly you do... otherwise you wouldn't be thinking about it or care to post this diatribe. So, own that.

Second, the reality is this is what women do. I don't claim to understand what motivates them to act like this, but they just do. You can't apply logic and rationality to what are irrational acts of emotion. Men will never get on with women, this is as historic as it is universal.

So if you're thinking that you need to change something about yourself, your behaviors and how you deal with others, the only benchmark you can use to evaluate this is how your male friends feel about you. If you have noticed your male friends ignoring you or coming up with excuses when you want to hang out?

Women will wreck your head. Even the nice ones will just consume your time and energy. At best it's a parasitic relationship where what you give is in such small doses that it's inconsequential. At worst, they can be full on psychic vampires.

So, in conclusion I am saying...

Fuck bitches, make money.

[Westsidex]

You started this thread to vent your frustration at two individuals,actually two women,only two women,there are a lot more peple who know you,. your mates ,work colleagues ,familly,Im sure they appreciate the kindness you have shown them ,so I wouldnt let them down by changing and turning your back on them when they will need you in the future.

i can think of situations with men as well.Its wrong to just women can be like this,so can men.

Westside.

[Westsidex]

Men will never get on with women, this is as historic as it is universal.

Interesting because i remember having a prob witha gf a good few years ago. My ole fella asked why the form was bad and i told him.He laughed and said "you will always have a probelm.you will either be a womans lover or her enemy."

Your comment brings that back to me,
Westside.

[Mousey]

Fuck bitches, make money.

Amen, brother!

[Prickly]

LOL she is tough enough this one. In any event when it comes to women there isnt alot i can do. I would never be the type to hassle a woman as i think its cowardly besides whats there to gain? I always think in this kind of an instance what goes around comes around.

Westside.

I'm a great believer in karma myself. A good reason for helping people out too.
You're right, I must admit, there's nothing to be gained.

Yours humbly, P
(No longer a young man.)