A tough question

[Ric Hardgear]

would you advise a close friend to get into the escort business ?
PROS:-Cash..selfemployed
- Cash..earnings tax free
- Cash..obtaining a standard of living that I otherwise would not have due to lack of qualification/country of origin.
- Enjoy having sex with older men.???


Cons:Loneliness..work mostly alone
Dangerous..re above
Unhealthy..work can be.mentally and physically damaging
Not a career..no promotion,no perks or benefits,company car,health insurance,pension.etc.
While at work very little interaction with persons of my own age


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[wanted the best 69]

just an add on to rics list ,
on the minus side retirement, some are forced by what ever to work way beyond a time that would be wise to stop, and cannot start a new life

[Westsidex]

would you advise a close friend to get into the escort business ?
PROS:-Cash..selfemployed
- Cash..earnings tax free
- Cash..obtaining a standard of living that I otherwise would not have due to lack of qualification/country of origin.
- Enjoy having sex with older men.???


Cons:Loneliness..work mostly alone
Dangerous..re above
Unhealthy..work can be.mentally and physically damaging
Not a career..no promotion,no perks or benefits,company car,health insurance,pension.etc.
While at work very little interaction with persons of my own age


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Yes but look at your list again and youll see how it may not be a great idea for some,

-Cash..selfemployed
- Cash..earnings tax free
- Cash..obtaining a standard of living that I otherwise would not have due to lack of qualification/country of origin.
- Enjoy having sex with older men.???

If something goes wrong here a person would get over it and move on.

Loneliness..work mostly alone
Dangerous..re above
Unhealthy..work can be.mentally and physically damaging
Not a career..no promotion,no perks or benefits,company car,health insurance,pension.etc.
While at work very little interaction with persons of my own age

however if something goes wrong here it wont be good. I went with a girl before who was asking me about the business. She worked for a while and all was going very good for her but she started changing,getting moody, off form, and she was starting to visually change too (and she was a stunner).She asked me and i told her to get out of it there and then because it was starting to turn against her.Anyway we broke up and sort of lost touch (im an easy person to loose touch with as i have a tendency to just disappear). I knew she was gone from the business. Met her a few months back and apart from shouting at me on St Oliver Plunkett street about taking a long time to cum,she looked great,moved on and is doing pretty well with herself.

My point is she moved when the time was right and while she was ahead. Financially she gained nothing as she spent as fast as she earned.

now you see me, now you dont,
Westside.

[Ric Hardgear]

Thanks for reply Westie...("Met her a few months back and apart from shouting at me on St Oliver Plunkett street about taking a long time to cum,she looked great,moved on and is doing pretty well with herself"....)jaysus Westie you certainly have a way with words...anyhow got distracted,,..sorry just cant take that image out of my head ,some bird shouting across the street ,"Hiya Westie yea doing fine regular job,thanks for askin.. by the way you took fecking ages to shoot your load ,,oh have you met my new work colleagues...

[Irish Soairsa]

I'll be honest Saoirse, I try my best to see independent ladies but not exclusively, that said I am of the opinion that for the best part ladies go into this business by their own choice, while I feel sorry for them for the bad clients they have to see and the shit some guys put them through, I would not put myself in that category. I am what most ladies would consider an ideal client, I'm clean, respectful, courteous and most of all thankfull for their decision to see me, it is a buiness arrangement and we are both getting what we want out of the transaction. I do not feel I am using the lady because I am not forcing her to do anything other than what she got into this business in the first place to do...

Yes I totally see your point. Ye will have to excuse me over the next few days as I have evry mixed feeling on the industry right now in addition to being totally overtired lol
I myself made the choice to go into and out of the business as and when I felt like it so I do get what you are saying but unfortunately it is impossible to be in total control as generally men are much stronger and if the intention is to do harm, there is little we can do to stop them.
My sorrow goes to those of you whom are very genuine, respectful etc. I have been blessed with mostly ideal clients. Those whom I could trust with my personal number and name etc. It is those of you I will miss as these appointments were most interesting, entertaining and above all naughty and fun lol
You see why I have mixed feelings?? I am wracked with internal conflict over it all. As such it would be a total disservice to ye and to myself to continue right now.
Some of you will know the genuine reasons behind this and others may have guessed by now why I am the way I am at mo.
These threads are very thought provoking well done, keep it up and thanks aml
xoxo

[Irish Soairsa]

I totally agree with Pat on the agency,pimp, independent arguement as this is exactly what will happen.
I myself may have continued on in the industry as an agency girl but with so many of you finding this off puttting, it would hardly be good for business.
At least with agency work, the hard work is taken out of it, the most of them earn thier commission and all one needs to do is show up and work as usual. Even with agency, if your there by choice, technically you could still be viewed as independent??
I also think it would be alot safer...

As for escorts leaving with an income they set out to make, I know plenty of escorts, myself included that make between 500 and 1000 per day at our ease. I myself saved alot of this and many of the other ladies are clever about this as well.

I would never say I regret becoming an escort as I had a great time for the most part and have the makings of a very good thesis on the subject lol
It is just a shame that the industry is becoming what it is.
Older clients will understand what I mean by this. It is just so different now and not in a good way. We even have girls stabbing each other in the back now and I mean real bitchy stuff where we used to be supportive of one another. I would not agree that the business is lonely, not unless you want it to be. I have some terrific girlfriends made through the business, and male friends too.