A tough question

[Irish Soairsa]

Every time i visit an escort when i leave this sense of guilt overcomes me that somehow i am taking advantage of these women,i can't help how i feel.If i ever found out a family member was doing this i would have to say no matter how much money you make this get out of this as quickly as you can lets not kid ourselves this is a dangerous profession no matter what way you look at it and fair play to saoirse for deciding this is not for her anymore.

Thanks aml for your honesty I value this as it takes guts to admit how you really feel

[Westsidex]

hi westie
your last point interests me, and that is the money, how many do you think get get out have made what they set out to make, ???????????

By the way ,to prove my theory go into a shiney shop with a girl that has money and watch closely what happens that money.

Clothes ,shoes shiney expensive stuff. A new pair of shoes or a new handbag to add to the 1000 collection of older ones.


Better to be shiney and broke then broke,
Westside.

[Torturedarc]

I can relate to AML on this .

[wanted the best 69]

hi westie
true to say, that is what have come to believe too,in some ways i wish they do make large returns, but i think they get trapped into it thinking i`ll get out tomorrow, sadly it never comes , good luck soairsa, in your new life.

[Westsidex]

Every time i visit an escort when i leave this sense of guilt overcomes me that somehow i am taking advantage of these women,i can't help how i feel.If i ever found out a family member was doing this i would have to say no matter how much money you make this get out of this as quickly as you can lets not kid ourselves this is a dangerous profession no matter what way you look at it and fair play to saoirse for deciding this is not for her anymore.

As i said to others here ,imagine how youd feel if you were going out with one?

not nice at times at all,
Westside.

[Forrest]

Guys,
Is it not hypocritical that you have largely wished me well and agreed it is a good decision to get out of the industry. You also would n't want someone you know to get into it. At the same time, how many of you will pick up the phone in the next week or so and see an escort??

Don't get me wrong, I am not judging in anyway but I find this most confusing.

Why do you thinks it's hypocritical? Of course the guys here wished you well, and agreed that you had made the right decision to get out.
It's important that, whatever career path you choose, you are happy in what you are doing.
Once you announced that you were unhappy with the industry, everyone agreed that you were making the right decision to quit.
I have met quite a few very level headed escorts over the years, who appeared to be totally in control of what they were doing.
If, at some stage, they decided that they had enough and wanted to quit, I would wish them well.
If I knew someone that wanted to get into the business I would, first of all, find out why they were thinking this way.
Then I would go through the pitfalls, as I understand them, and if they still wanted to do it, I would assist them as much as possible.

There is nothing wrong with being an escort as long you are totally in control of what you are doing and why you are doing it.

[anon361]

Guys,
Is it not hypocritical that you have largely wished me well and agreed it is a good decision to get out of the industry. You also would n't want someone you know to get into it. At the same time, how many of you will pick up the phone in the next week or so and see an escort??

Don't get me wrong, I am not judging in anyway but I find this most confusing.

I'll be honest Saoirse, I try my best to see independent ladies but not exclusively, that said I am of the opinion that for the best part ladies go into this business by their own choice, while I feel sorry for them for the bad clients they have to see and the shit some guys put them through, I would not put myself in that category. I am what most ladies would consider an ideal client, I'm clean, respectful, courteous and most of all thankfull for their decision to see me, it is a buiness arrangement and we are both getting what we want out of the transaction. I do not feel I am using the lady because I am not forcing her to do anything other than what she got into this business in the first place to do...

[debest]

Why do you thinks it's hypocritical? Of course the guys here wished you well, and agreed that you had made the right decision to get out.
It's important that, whatever career path you choose, you are happy in what you are doing.
Once you announced that you were unhappy with the industry, everyone agreed that you were making the right decision to quit.
I have met quite a few very level headed escorts over the years, who appeared to be totally in control of what they were doing.
If, at some stage, they decided that they had enough and wanted to quit, I would wish them well.
If I knew someone that wanted to get into the business I would, first of all, find out why they were thinking this way.
Then I would go through the pitfalls, as I understand them, and if they still wanted to do it, I would assist them as much as possible.

There is nothing wrong with being an escort as long you are totally in control of what you are doing and why you are doing it.

Of course it's hypocritical to see escorts and then advise someone against becoming an escort. But everyone is a hypocrite sometimes.

Ami's point about the feeling of guilt after a punt is interesting. Ami....would you feel that way everytime or just after a punt where the girl seemed distant and like she didn't want to be there??

[aml]

Of course it's hypocritical to see escorts and then advise someone against becoming an escort. But everyone is a hypocrite sometimes.

Ami's point about the feeling of guilt after a punt is interesting. Ami....would you feel that way everytime or just after a punt where the girl seemed distant and like she didn't want to be there??

I have been with about 7 escorts in the past two years and i still feel the same whether or not the escort was distant or very welcoming.Obviously i have been with one or two that have very distant which makes my feeling worse as i believe that they are not independant.

[Rayden]

if somebody i knew wanted to become an escort, i would have no problem with it. This person would be an adult and so can make decisions and potential mistakes for him/herself. Whatever they would wanna do is fine by me.