Why are minders off putting?????

[benin]

I was reading another thread which went slightly off topic but it got me thinking so I thought to start this thread.

Do you really believe minders are boyfriends??
Why do they put you off??
You do understand that because of the increase in attacks by deeply unwell men that security men have become a necessity now??
They will not hurt anyone unless something drastic occurs.
Also, I have many times been asked if I am agency because I tour with friends but the starc reality is I would feel unsafe without my friends.
Just interested in your opinions on this.

some of the minders are a bit scary