Are you really straight...

[Gaylord]

hi i do not mean to box or label anyone, but, sometimes questions have to be asked, i do not believe there is one answer, but many, if debate does not occur, then silence is the answer, we have but to look at our policy of silence in this country to see where this can lead, i am not suggesting there is any connection,only the silence bit

Thanks Wanted, hopefully we can open up a few debates on forum relevant issues. So don't be shy guy's & gal's.

GL

[luther]

This is not about labelling Luther, more about opening up a discussion /debate which is what this LGBT forum is all about...If you feel labeled, that is not the intention of the question, as I reiterated in my previous answer.

GL

Sorry GL, didn't mean it to sound like that. I just think in general people tend to be labeled too much. It makes people happier or more comfortable that they can put them in a box and define them so to speak...............

[Gaylord]

Sorry GL, didn't mean it to sound like that. I just think in general people tend to be labeled too much. It makes people happier or more comfortable that they can put them in a box and define them so to speak...............

That's ok Luther. I know some people feel happier not to be defined, however some people pay lots of money via therapists just to have this very conversation. The point of the discussion is more to let people know that perhaps they are not alone in asking this question. Whether it be of themselves or of others.

GL.

[ThomasJ]

No - I think you would have to describe as bi - never been tempted for out and out sex with a man but when I look at TS escorts I have been at least curious - never been brave enough to try.

[Gaylord]

No - I think you would have to describe as bi - never been tempted for out and out sex with a man but when I look at TS escorts I have been at least curious - never been brave enough to try.

Why a TS ThomasJ?

GL

[luther]

Why a TS ThomasJ?

GL

Why not???

According to our latest troll, I love them.............

True story..........That's why I popped over here.................

[northernwaster]

The Gay community took the stance

That really annoys me, makes me think that individual 'members of the community' can't think for themselves, and would put me off wanting to sample 'the community'

[Gaylord]

Try not to be so defensive, these are just question's to (once again) open up a debate/discussion. Sorry you feel that you can't be an individual whilst being part of a collective.

The question asked of TJ was to get his opinion on his previous post, as I & others may be interested in hearing his opinion. If you are not Luther, then please do not misinterpret my and perhaps others curiosity.

This is a forum for open discussion, not for closing down curiosity/debate/discussion.

GL

[northernwaster]

I understand that, but, having gay family members and a few gay friends; there does seem to be a certain way of thinking / dressing / acting you have to do - just as much as there is in the 'straight community' where you have be this or that

This need to define is just like being the oddball at school again

[Gaylord]

I understand that, but, having gay family members and a few gay friends; there does seem to be a certain way of thinking / dressing / acting you have to do - just as much as there is in the 'straight community' where you have be this or that

This need to define is just like being the oddball at school again

Perhaps that's just your friends, we are far more diverse than any stereotype others may have of us. We each may define ourselves, when some of us ask ourselves, who am I??

Sorry if you had a bad school experience.


GL