"Men who use escorts are losers"

[Forrest]

I'm sorry Forrest...but this statement is complete rubbish.

When you do those things, most times it's because you have feelings for the girl and her for you. I've never had any connection with an escort nor do I want to....this a business for them.

What is complete rubbish!!!
They are two separate things - wining and dining a lady friend takes time and money, unless you are extremely luck or happen to be Brad Pitt or George Clooney.
Hooking up with an escort just takes money and, these days, that suits me fine.

[debest]

What is complete rubbish!!!
They are two separate things - wining and dining a lady friend takes time and money, unless you are extremely luck or happen to be Brad Pitt or George Clooney.
Hooking up with an escort just takes money and, these days, that suits me fine.

Why did you take issue with my post then??? Did you even read it?? And in my last post I clearly stated that they were 2 different things, because to say otherwise would be stupid.

[Rayden]

i meet up with escorts simply due to being rubbish with chatting up the ladies and all that effort a relationship takes isnt worth it imo.

[Forrest]

Why did you take issue with my post then??? Did you even read it?? And in my last post I clearly stated that they were 2 different things, because to say otherwise would be stupid.

Of course I read your post. That's why I replied.
In my original post I said that all men pay for sex 'one way or another', to which you replied that it was complete rubbish.
You didn't explain why you thought my comment was 'complete rubbish', which is why I took issue with it.
I then pointed out the two separate situations, which you agree are different, but both cost money.

[debest]

Of course I read your post. That's why I replied.
In my original post I said that all men pay for sex 'one way or another', to which you replied that it was complete rubbish.
You didn't explain why you thought my comment was 'complete rubbish', which is why I took issue with it.
I then pointed out the two separate situations, which you agree are different, but both cost money.

I did explain why I thought it was rubbish. Both cost money??? Don't know about you....but I've never paid a girl I've been going out with to have sex with me.

[Forrest]

I did explain why I thought it was rubbish. Both cost money??? Don't know about you....but I've never paid a girl I've been going out with to have sex with me.

Of course I have never paid a girl, directly, that I was going out with to have sex with me. But I have bought meals, drinks, gifts etc as part of the dating ritual and that doesn't come from fresh air. And some have cost more than others to get to the end game.

I suppose you 'go dutch' when you are going out with a girl. Fair play to you if you can get away with it.