Why .....

[ksteve]

... escort if you do not FK. ?

Is it just me ? If there is no FK, indeed no DFK, then 75% of the intimacy of a booking is lost. You may as well book a doll. I cant understand why some reviewers state there was no FK but the punt was satisfactory.! If memberes agree with me then this message should be communicated to all escorts.

[Mr Magoo]

... escort if you do not FK. ?

Is it just me ? If there is no FK, indeed no DFK, then 75% of the intimacy of a booking is lost. You may as well book a doll. I cant understand why some reviewers state there was no FK but the punt was satisfactory.! If memberes agree with me then this message should be communicated to all escorts.

Stevo this is where you have to put yourself in the shoes of an escort.

Whatever about all the other items of their 'favourite' list this is one service most simply can't go through with if they find the client deeply unattractive.

If they have any sort of connection with you then some will offer it, even when it's not on their list. Likewise if they are really struggling with a client who simply doesn't do it for them then you can't expect them to.

You wouldn't kiss someone you found repulsive, so don't ask them to.

I'm happily a smoker again.

[ksteve]

Stevo this is where you have to put yourself in the shoes of an escort.

Whatever about all the other items of their 'favourite' list this is one service most simply can't go through with if they find the client deeply unattractive.

If they have any sort of connection with you then some will offer it, even when it's not on their list. Likewise if they are really struggling with a client who simply doesn't do it for them then you can't expect them to.

You wouldn't kiss someone you found repulsive, so don't ask them to.

I'm happily a smoker again.

btw , fortunately I have never been refused FK but I'm sure there is always a first time.


Now with respect ,this is the first time I have heard any reference to a guy ' doing it ' for an escort . They are not the rules as I understand them. Escorts merely require you to turn up clean, well mannered and respectfull and thereafter everyone is supposed to get the same sevices. Outside that,if an escort genuinely finds a punter ' repulsive ' then she has the discretion not to proceed.

[Karin Kiss]

It's not really about finding clients unattractive, at least not in all cases !!!

Sometimes the client can be nice and sweet but with some serious bad breath / teeth / beard issues and not willing to do something about it. Some other time it's just the simple fact that kissing is so very intimate that a girl may have a problem doing this, regardless how the client looks and smell.

If a girl doesn't specify FK on her profile, then it would be up to any client to see her and they really should not expect or demand such service.

But if 1. the profile specifies FK 2. the escort confirms this service on the phone / email 3. the client is reasonably clean and nice smelling - then the escort should not have any excuse not to FK.

[monster_monster]

i always thought it was a hygiene issue as it is the exchange of bodily fluids, if an escort isn't willing to FK then they usually don't do OWO or CIM either.

[Mr Magoo]

i always thought it was a hygiene issue as it is the exchange of bodily fluids, if an escort isn't willing to FK then they usually don't do OWO or CIM either.

Fair point.

To be honest the thoughts of being down on someone like M Harney's growler never mind having to french kiss her makes me go light headed.

I'm not sure which of these would be worse for me, probably having to kiss after she's just had a curry and a pint.

[Noah]

I think women put alot more emphasis on a french kiss than a man for a number of reasons.
Most guys want to french kiss because its pretty cool and is a lead in to the next stage, whereas i think, and i may be wrong, but the physical act of sharing a tender kiss is surprisingly too intimate for some escorts, although this seems on the exterior to be a double standard when the escort may be offering cim or owo, the act of kissing is a deeply sensual and erotic act that can stir an emotional response that a professional liaison certainly does not require.

[Stella]

Im just offering massage so this question is maybe not for me but, i know many girls who thinks FK is more intimate or private than sex....but "have to" put their profile cause the competiton is big, and i belive thats why they refuse or just gives half harted....
i think if a client looking for a quick shag instead of GFE than he'll fine without the kissing part, thats why the punt is ok all in all....

[Mr Magoo]

Im just offering massage so this question is maybe not for me but, i know many girls who thinks FK is more intimate or private than sex....but "have to" put their profile cause the competiton is big, and i belive thats why they refuse or just gives half harted....
i think if a client looking for a quick shag instead of GFE than he'll fine without the kissing part, thats why the punt is ok all in all....

Good point about the competition factor.

Look, I've been with escorts who provided services above and beyond what was on their list. I've also been with some who offered less. It's the nature of the game.

Roll with the punt and see where it goes. If she want's do kiss you then lucky you, if she doesn't then no big deal. Either ways there's no need to moan about it, as it may just be you she doesn't want to kiss and not the next client she sees.

[Irish Soairsa]

I agree Stella.
It is really down to the client.
I provide a unique service specialised to my clients wants and needs. GFE is my forte and something I excell in. If I could not connect with my clients, I expect I would get no repeat service but TBH I have never had a complaint. I think some guys like sex to feel special too, lord knows I get enough calls for this type of service.
Just maybe you should always check that the service you want is the service she provides before you get there and hand over your hard earned cash and get left disappointed.
xoxo