Why .....

[Karin Kiss]

It's not really about finding clients unattractive, at least not in all cases !!!

Sometimes the client can be nice and sweet but with some serious bad breath / teeth / beard issues and not willing to do something about it. Some other time it's just the simple fact that kissing is so very intimate that a girl may have a problem doing this, regardless how the client looks and smell.

If a girl doesn't specify FK on her profile, then it would be up to any client to see her and they really should not expect or demand such service.

But if 1. the profile specifies FK 2. the escort confirms this service on the phone / email 3. the client is reasonably clean and nice smelling - then the escort should not have any excuse not to FK.

[monster_monster]

i always thought it was a hygiene issue as it is the exchange of bodily fluids, if an escort isn't willing to FK then they usually don't do OWO or CIM either.

[Mr Magoo]

i always thought it was a hygiene issue as it is the exchange of bodily fluids, if an escort isn't willing to FK then they usually don't do OWO or CIM either.

Fair point.

To be honest the thoughts of being down on someone like M Harney's growler never mind having to french kiss her makes me go light headed.

I'm not sure which of these would be worse for me, probably having to kiss after she's just had a curry and a pint.

[Noah]

I think women put alot more emphasis on a french kiss than a man for a number of reasons.
Most guys want to french kiss because its pretty cool and is a lead in to the next stage, whereas i think, and i may be wrong, but the physical act of sharing a tender kiss is surprisingly too intimate for some escorts, although this seems on the exterior to be a double standard when the escort may be offering cim or owo, the act of kissing is a deeply sensual and erotic act that can stir an emotional response that a professional liaison certainly does not require.

[Stella]

Im just offering massage so this question is maybe not for me but, i know many girls who thinks FK is more intimate or private than sex....but "have to" put their profile cause the competiton is big, and i belive thats why they refuse or just gives half harted....
i think if a client looking for a quick shag instead of GFE than he'll fine without the kissing part, thats why the punt is ok all in all....

[Mr Magoo]

Im just offering massage so this question is maybe not for me but, i know many girls who thinks FK is more intimate or private than sex....but "have to" put their profile cause the competiton is big, and i belive thats why they refuse or just gives half harted....
i think if a client looking for a quick shag instead of GFE than he'll fine without the kissing part, thats why the punt is ok all in all....

Good point about the competition factor.

Look, I've been with escorts who provided services above and beyond what was on their list. I've also been with some who offered less. It's the nature of the game.

Roll with the punt and see where it goes. If she want's do kiss you then lucky you, if she doesn't then no big deal. Either ways there's no need to moan about it, as it may just be you she doesn't want to kiss and not the next client she sees.

[ksteve]

Good point about the competition factor.

Look, I've been with escorts who provided services above and beyond what was on their list. I've also been with some who offered less. It's the nature of the game.

Roll with the punt and see where it goes. If she want's do kiss you then lucky you, if she doesn't then no big deal. Either ways there's no need to moan about it, as it may just be you she doesn't want to kiss and not the next client she sees.

I'm merely discussing peoples views on the topic.


Btw, I'm not a supporter of the ' give it a lash lads, it'll be grand ' brigade .

[Mr Magoo]

I'm merely discussing peoples views on the topic.


Btw, I'm not a supporter of the ' give it a lash lads, it'll be grand brigade '.

I know what you're saying.

Likewise I'm not a fan of the people who write disparaging reports about escorts who wouldn't kiss them as though it was their god given right to expect kissing. All they do is run an escort's business down simply because she couldn't bring herself to kiss that ONE particular person.

Even as I write someone has just complained that he gets pissed off when they don't deliver it.

To them I say get over it, there's probably a good reason they won't kiss you.

[monster_monster]

when you speak to an escort on the phone you should always make crystal clear what favorites you want, if they aren't 100% about this hang up. Then when you get there reiterate what you discussed on the phone again if there is any sway from what they promised you leave straight away. Personally I think this is a must for all punters, if the escort fails to deliver after that then you have at least done all you can and just have to put it down to being ripped off.

[Mr Magoo]

when you speak to an escort on the phone you should always make crystal clear what favorites you want, if they aren't 100% about this hang up. Then when you get there reiterate what you discussed on the phone again if there is any sway from what they promised you leave straight away. Personally I think this is a must for all punters, if the escort fails to deliver after that then you have at least done all you can and just have to put it down to being ripped off.

Lads you're missing the point. You can talk, plan, book and re-confirm all you want but if she opens the door and you physically make her feel unwell then what's she meant to do?

I don't think there is any money in the world that should make an escort obliged to kiss you if you don't look after yourself.

The onus is on the client as much as the escort to make some effort with themselves.