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[Mr Magoo]

Im just offering massage so this question is maybe not for me but, i know many girls who thinks FK is more intimate or private than sex....but "have to" put their profile cause the competiton is big, and i belive thats why they refuse or just gives half harted....
i think if a client looking for a quick shag instead of GFE than he'll fine without the kissing part, thats why the punt is ok all in all....

Good point about the competition factor.

Look, I've been with escorts who provided services above and beyond what was on their list. I've also been with some who offered less. It's the nature of the game.

Roll with the punt and see where it goes. If she want's do kiss you then lucky you, if she doesn't then no big deal. Either ways there's no need to moan about it, as it may just be you she doesn't want to kiss and not the next client she sees.

[Irish Soairsa]

I agree Stella.
It is really down to the client.
I provide a unique service specialised to my clients wants and needs. GFE is my forte and something I excell in. If I could not connect with my clients, I expect I would get no repeat service but TBH I have never had a complaint. I think some guys like sex to feel special too, lord knows I get enough calls for this type of service.
Just maybe you should always check that the service you want is the service she provides before you get there and hand over your hard earned cash and get left disappointed.
xoxo

[ksteve]

Im just offering massage so this question is maybe not for me but, i know many girls who thinks FK is more intimate or private than sex....but "have to" put their profile cause the competiton is big, and i belive thats why they refuse or just gives half harted....
i think if a client looking for a quick shag instead of GFE than he'll fine without the kissing part, thats why the punt is ok all in all....

Hi Stella

yes of course, you are right my point only applies to escorting , not to a massage.

If a punter just wants a shag with no kissing then all he needs is a 15 min quickie from a parlour girl. I am talking about an escort who offers a 1 hour or more booking.My view is that she is simply not suited to 'escorting ' if she wants to avoid FK.

[Karin Kiss]

Hi Karin -- I think this is a technical arguement. I think many profiles dont even refer to sex because it is just so fundamental to escorting.I think FK should be the same. If there is a problem with the presentation of the guy, then thats a different matter but not wanting to FK because it is intimate takes the WG automatically out of the escort category IMHO.

I see your point Steve, but that means the power to regulate escorting to a fine point and impose that FK should be on the menu for all escorts. Who in reality can impose such thing? There are escorts specialised in strict domination and no sex, or massage and no sex (just BJ-s or handjobs), so nothing could be taken for granted in this area.

So yeah, it would be nice that all escorts would kiss, I totally agree with the point that it's not nice clients to be refused such an erotic service ! But the reality is that an escort could offer whatever services she feels happy with and a client is free to pick any escorts he likes based on his personal taste.

P.S. I was merely trying to provide an explanation why some girls do not kiss.
I am personally really big into kissing and I provide this service happily to all my willing clients, hence my escort name Karin KISS

P.P.S. There are also clients who do not want to be french kissed and it's nothing to do with how attractive escorts are, it's just their nature or maybe they feel like "cheating" if the would allow themselves to do the same things with an escort like they would do with their partner.

[Victor Mature]

I really enjoy FK and DFK and check if the escort offers this as part of the service. If a review has not stated that FK is freely available, I usually ask the lady over the phone - they invariably respond "yes, no problem". MOST times this will ensure that FK is on the menu once you have agreed to proceed.

WHAT REALLY PISSES ME OFF is when, after all this, you arrive, pay up and then FK is either cusrory (a brush of the lips) or non-existent. This has only happened to me a handful of times but I find it really annoying that an escort should refuse any service after meeting you in person. fair enough, if she finds you repulsive she should say BEFORE you pay that one or more services are unavailable.

But to proceed and then to refuse the service is pretty mean in my book. As I say this has only happened a few times but boy do I remember them!!

Cheers
Vic

[nicegirlsarenice]

Hi Stella

yes of course, you are right my point only applies to escorting , not to a massage.

If a punter just wants a shag with no kissing then all he needs is a 15 min quickie from a parlour girl. I am talking about an escort who offers a 1 hour or more booking.My view is that she is simply not suited to 'escorting ' if she wants to avoid FK.

But you said "If she doesn't do FK then you may as well book a doll".... not a very nice thing to say.

What made you so pissed off you posted that...? If other punters are happy without FK, then I think it's below the belt to insult them like that.

[ksteve]

Good point about the competition factor.

Look, I've been with escorts who provided services above and beyond what was on their list. I've also been with some who offered less. It's the nature of the game.

Roll with the punt and see where it goes. If she want's do kiss you then lucky you, if she doesn't then no big deal. Either ways there's no need to moan about it, as it may just be you she doesn't want to kiss and not the next client she sees.

I'm merely discussing peoples views on the topic.


Btw, I'm not a supporter of the ' give it a lash lads, it'll be grand ' brigade .

[Mr Magoo]

I'm merely discussing peoples views on the topic.


Btw, I'm not a supporter of the ' give it a lash lads, it'll be grand brigade '.

I know what you're saying.

Likewise I'm not a fan of the people who write disparaging reports about escorts who wouldn't kiss them as though it was their god given right to expect kissing. All they do is run an escort's business down simply because she couldn't bring herself to kiss that ONE particular person.

Even as I write someone has just complained that he gets pissed off when they don't deliver it.

To them I say get over it, there's probably a good reason they won't kiss you.

[monster_monster]

when you speak to an escort on the phone you should always make crystal clear what favorites you want, if they aren't 100% about this hang up. Then when you get there reiterate what you discussed on the phone again if there is any sway from what they promised you leave straight away. Personally I think this is a must for all punters, if the escort fails to deliver after that then you have at least done all you can and just have to put it down to being ripped off.

[Mr Magoo]

when you speak to an escort on the phone you should always make crystal clear what favorites you want, if they aren't 100% about this hang up. Then when you get there reiterate what you discussed on the phone again if there is any sway from what they promised you leave straight away. Personally I think this is a must for all punters, if the escort fails to deliver after that then you have at least done all you can and just have to put it down to being ripped off.

Lads you're missing the point. You can talk, plan, book and re-confirm all you want but if she opens the door and you physically make her feel unwell then what's she meant to do?

I don't think there is any money in the world that should make an escort obliged to kiss you if you don't look after yourself.

The onus is on the client as much as the escort to make some effort with themselves.