Last week I visited an Escort in the early evening. About 3 hours later I was walking down the street and met her coming the opposite direction, narrow footpath. Once I recognised her I looked down a kept walking.
Did I do right? Or should I have done something else?
Mainly a question for the escorts themselves.
I wouldnt worry about it................................................
Benny, without sounding like a smartass a lot of escorts wont say hi to a client on the st. They really keep the buisiness separate.With your eg she really wont take it personally.So i wouldnt worry about it.
I remember the first escort i ever went into. We got on real well and man did we have a good time.Anyway i remember walking along one day and saw her coming along.I smiled ,ready to stop and talk ,she hesitated and what ,yeah walk right by.It was like a kick in the balls but i could see that she didnt mean it.Having said that two of her work mates always stop and say hi and talk but i havnt seen them now for years.I often wonder how they are.
Anyway fast forward a bit and im after going to another massage parlour.Im walking along again and see the girl heading towards me (we did kiss when i was in which isnt usual for a massage parlour, (having said that the one above kissed too.Anyway im going along and what do you think happened? She smiled and stopped and i walk right passed her.I felt bad about doing that.
Nowadays if i see an escort i was with , i simply give her the benefit of the doubt.I always look and if she wants to say hi fine,if not fine.Remember eye contact can mean alot so if she looks at you at all then just take it she said hi.So give the girl the benefit of the doubt and smile or say hi.If she doesnt say hi back then dont hold it against the girl.
I have (had) a golden rule and that was i would never intentionally go back to the same escort twice.Why? to protect my emotions.As much as an escort thinks its buisiness ,so do i.
Believe it or not, (never think it from reading my posts) i am very easy to get along with and most women feel very comfortable around me but i dont take any notice of anything thats said during buisiness.I do things with gfs that i would never do with escorts.??????????I keep my personal bit to myself as they do.
Its an absoulute mindfuck when you meet an escort and there is mutual attraction.Its happened me a few times and its awful.Going away from her is fuckin awful.Seriously try to avoid that if you can.
Im rambling here.So to answer your question i wouldnt worry about it and i dont think she would either.Also dont assume she would have said hi either but at the same time dont take it the wrong way if she doesnt.
Enjoy your visits to escorts but keep your personal life ,your personal life.Ive done it both ways and no offense to any girl here ,i rather meet a girl and date a girl that i havnt done buisiness with.
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Another aspect to meeting an escort, with whom you have had a sexual business relationship, is that she or you may be observed by a partner or friend who might ask either you or her akward questions.
I once walked out of a massage parlour (back in those good old days) and straight into an aunt who was in Dublin for a days shopping. Immediately I walked with her in the direction SHE was walking and stayed with her for twenty minutes so that she couldn't return to check out the address I had emerged from.
Never having the misfortune to meet an escort while with wife or friends I can only surmise what I would say........................probably say "I remember meeting you at a do...now where was it??" or something along those lines.
The big thing for you, Benny, to bear in mind is that it is the responsiblity of the working escort not to in any way endanger your secret; so she should never, ever, make the first move towards regconition or friendly overtures.
Also bear in mind that most escorts don't broadcast their work to their family and friends so they too may wish to keep their secrets safe from unnesscessary questioning.
Its not just a matter of etiquette, for most people, either escort or punter, its a matter of keeping their sexual work or pleasures secret.
As a former escort I'd say you did the right thing.
Both escorts and clients have private lives so it is best to say nothing when paths cross outside of business.
Which just goes to show................................................
falling for an escort
Recently in the coarse of my work , (nothing to do with escorts) I met a Brazilian lady whom I found very attractive . As it happened , we spent an hour or more chatting about this and that , all very innocent . As a result , I asked her out on a date and she said yes . A pleasent time was had by both of us on the date . Being the gentleman that I am , I dropped her home , gave her a peck on the cheek and left with the promise that I would take her out again soon. On the second date , all was going very nicely and during the evening she told me that she and the two other Brazilian girls she was living with , were moving to another apartment . I offered to help them move and my offer was greatly appreciated and accepted . The day to move came and while moving between the two apartments , I noticed that the phones of the other two girls were ringing a lot and the usual response was ...hello baby....yes see you later , and that kind of talk . Fine , said I to myself , good luck to them . The phone belonging to my friend wasn't ringing at all so I thought to myself , her friends are on the game but she isn't . At this stage , I hadn't a clue but curiosity got the better of me and I decided to do a little reserch with help from EI . Well , you guessed it , I found her two friends on the site but I couldn't find her on it . That's grand says I to myself , no worries there .
At this stage , our relationship hadn't gone beyond kissing but I was getting fonder of her by the day and as far as I was concerned , things were fine .
To cut a long story short , I found out that she was on the game as well . When she realised that I knew what she was doing , her attitude to me changed completely and she put a wall up between the two of us which was and is nearly impossible to get over . To say that I was sad , upset and dissapointed , would be an understatement and also made me feel like a twat and an idiot .
So , ladies and gentlemen , the moral of my sad tale is ........................
Don't fall for a hooker . My only consolation is that I had no idea at all , when I fell for her . The three girls are still operating in Dublin and the one I fell for , is featured , as I discovered later , on the EI website . She and her friends get very good reviews from the punters .
yeah thats nasty shit....................................................
I had a very smilar circumstance happen to me. My buddy Pat would know this "lady" very well. Anyway a buddy of mine met a girl threw adverts. I never used them but for the fun of it stuck one up.
Anyway i got a few replies. Ended up meeting ms X.Smething about her was not right from the beginning but i really wasnt too pushed. Anyway i get a call from her one night and she asked me to babysit for her and i said no probs.I called and saw a camera facing me. She headed off out ,came back,we had pizza and i went away. at this stage i was kept happy staying friends with her. There was no click there for romance.
Anyway a week or so later ,she called and asked me to drop down to her for a drink and a chat. We were to meet at 10. I arrived ,no answer. So i said fuck this and parked the car down in a dark cornor.
About a hour later a jeep came along and this big guy gets out. I get out and say to him ,to ask Xto quit acting the bollox.He got real smart and i did what any normal person would do and knocked the head off him.He ran away into the house and she comes along.
I said what the fuck is she up to.she smiled.I said fine and walked away. About three weeks later there she was on the Sunday paper so i did what any normal person would do and phoned her and said hi (her stage name). She said you would be smart to my face and i said hey hold on and ill be down. I got a nailbar and a pair of changs and headed off down to pmp boy.
I got to the house and saw a few kids playing in her garden. Something n my mnd felt sorry for the kids and i went away again. Saw her once after and she just drove along with a sort of regretful look on her face.
I have a feeling that she runs a club from this site.Hey sweetie,remember me?
Hugs and Kisses (on my arse),
Originally Posted by diddlydoo
I give you a bit of well intentioned advice.It may sound harsh but i will say it. Fuck them. Go out and look into the world.Yeah you see lots of women just as nice looking as any of the escorts. Trust me they are there. you obviously dont have a mental block of askng a lady out so all it takes is to try.
I struck a very good friendship with a mature escort i called into. One night i told her some things that happened during my escort frolics and she said i was crazy.She said why the hell get involved with an escort when i can get involved with any girl around.she had a point.This remember is coming from an escort.She is very very tough but respectful too.
I will say this ,its fuckin great to turn around and call myself an ex punter.
Like i said there are two escorts that i might date ,one here on this site and anothe rin a massage parlour.Do i think i would get them out if i tried ,yes.Will i try .NoBecause im a fuckin client or an ex one.Maybe if i become an extreamly ex one ,i might bump into the massage parlour one.The other hasnt being in Cork for along time.She did text me saying thanks and telling me she was going to Dub.I did tell her i would text her but never did.
Hey hope you meet some nice.For every nasty girl out there ,there is a nice one too.The trick is to try out.
I often walk along or drive along the the st girl area of Cork and yeah i see a new bunch there and the old bunch gone but i always say hi to one girl. Her boyfriend doesnt mind at all.If things look quiet ,i stop and she jumps in and we caht for a few mins.She did say that she was stopping although it doesnt lok like it.she gave me her phone no and said to call sometime and we go out but i deleted it.I promised myself i wont go down that route again.
Oh this one is for the escorts.Dont assume two things Sweeties.One is that the guy is crazy about you and two that you keep more of your self than he does.I do things with gfs that i would never do with an escort.Lucky gfs.
Take it easy man and thank you for your story,