Should I start to make multiple appointments?

[El Gordo]

I turn up and the escort fails to make the appointment. This happens 80% of the time - I am keeping count.

For me this is more like 20%. Recently less than that. If you are having an 80% n/a rate then I think at least one of these statements must be true:
1. You are somehow drawn to flaky escorts.
2. Something in the way you book is making escorts think you are flaky.
3. You are very unlucky.
It's hard to tell which of these is happening without more information.

Hun why have you not written reviews for these so called 80% that have messed you around???

That's certainly an option. I have done this in the past: Escort Ireland - Escort Reviews - Review 012185 - Irish Independent Escorts, Irish Touring Escorts, Irish Escort Agencies
Before writing that review I pm'ed the escort to ask whether there was some reason she hadn't been able to see me or cancel. After all, emergencies do happen sometimes. Only when she didn't reply did I submit the review.
I find it helpful when people write n/a reviews. I'll be very wary of booking an appointment with an escort who has a reputation for double booking, especially if I have a limited time window.

[sharkskin]

An escort contacting a potential client has and always will be a big no-no. Rotten apples on both sides ruin it for everybody :mad:

In my experience, in slightly over half of the situations in which I have made an appointment ahead of time there has been a two way exchange. Mostly escorts send texts but sometimes I have had calls or PMs.

An example from a recent encounter:

I call an escort and make at booking for 8pm
She says sure and tells me the address.
A moment later I receive her SMS. She's confirming the address and ending with "see you at 8 xxx"

There is another interesting correlation there. Just over half of my completed visits with escorts have involved in-calls with an appointment made one hour or more in advance. That means that almost one third of the total visits with escorts involved an advanced booked and a two way exchange of messages between me and the escort.

If I then rank all those visits according to my happiness with the result then what I see is this:

Every visit that was preceded by a two way exchange of messages is in the top half of my list and of the top 5 only one did not involve such an exchange.

[JAMESCORK]

An escort contacting a potential client has and always will be a big no-no. Rotten apples on both sides ruin it for everybody

How do you confirm appointment if she is not allowed to contact you.

[anon361]

How do you confirm appointment if she is not allowed to contact you.

There is a difference between contacting you close to the appointment, say in reply to a missed call or a text sent but an unsolicited text or call the morning before when she is unsure where you are or who your with is not really acceptable in my book. I use a seperate phone so really to me it doesn't matter but unfortunately there are a lot of guys that use there regular phone and a text or missed call could be seen by curious eyes...
How many times have we seen threads been started by guys giving out about ladies contacting them to tell them they are back in there area, one guy even posted his wife intercepted such a text and left him.. I have recieved such texts also and to be honest even though it is a private phone it pisses me off and that lady gets stiked straight off my list..

[anon361]

Sharkskin pmed me to tell me to remove or edit this post with some other bollock that has no relevance to this post

I will not do so as it's a vaild point to all

If that's his attitude I'm not suprised he's having such bad responses, you should report the Pm and have him sanctioned for harrasing / threatening you. I just don't get some people

[Westsidex]

Well i kept out of this one but i dont think its right to take the fact that a guy has being left down a few times and create a prob for other girls who may not do that.

not right,
Westside.

[Quarterpoundher]

He did not threaten me or harasse me

he simply told me a load of bollocks and told me to remove or edit my post

I'm leaving the post up as I find punters don't realise if they started towrite reviews good and bad it's to help the other punters on finding the write escort

if people refuse to write reviews then it's the blind leading the blind

There fore I think my post is benifical therefore I'm leaving it up

p.s no one should tell another just because they don't agree to wot someone has said to remove or edit there post

Here here,

Sharkskin where do you get off telling people to edit what you do not agree with?. If they conducted themselves within the rules they and you can say what you wish.

If Kelly wishes then report the pm just as you report a post and mods will decide if sanctions are required or if anyone else gets pms of a similar nature for expressing your opinion please let us know, this is not on.

[MatureEbonyPru38F]

He did not threaten me or harasse me

he simply told me a load of bollocks and told me to remove or edit my post

I'm leaving the post up as I find punters don't realise if they started towrite reviews good and bad it's to help the other punters on finding the write escort

if people refuse to write reviews then it's the blind leading the blind

There fore I think my post is benifical therefore I'm leaving it up

p.s no one should tell another just because they don't agree to wot someone has said to remove or edit there post

My thought when I read your post was, or has he reviewed the 20 per cent that didn't let him down. I get guys asking why I haven't had a reveiw in years. I want to ask them, how many reviews have they written. They all want to benefit from the avoiding bad punting experiences when they read a review; but the majority keep their own experiences to themselves.

xxx

Pru

[MatureEbonyPru38F]

Two things strike me here (and if these point have already been covered, I apologise.

We ladies do form friendships and we do share details on time-wasters - guaranteed. But every so often, we'll be talking in general terms about a booking coming up, and the other lady will realise she has the same guy booked to see her on the same day, sometimes the same hour. Whereupon we both laugh, because he's been rumbled, and strike a line through the booking.

I think your preferred approach of expecting ladies to be sitting there all primed and waiting for you is flawed. A lady sitting primed and ready to go with 15 minutes notice (or less), is operating a first come, first served system. Whoever gets to that door first, is the winner. And you could as well be the winner as the loser, in that kind of scenario. Ladies that need time to prepare are the ones with a life outside of escorting - where stockings, suspenders and make-up are not required.

I used to stick rigidly to a booking system when I first started touring. Realising the abysmally low number of first time bookers that would actually turned up, put paid to that approach. For a regular or returning client, I'll take a booking and that slot is ruled out in terms of availability to any one else. I'll even take it on the chin if he's running late and still turn away any other hopefuls for that time slot.

You are entitled to variety. It's a good thing, even. But then you lose the benefit of the established relationship with a lady you can ring up and say, remember me from last month? You miss out on the good karma a returning client builds up which means that in "bird in hand" territory" you are a much sought-after catch.

However, each visit visit to a new lady, whether you book a week in advance of 15 minutes ahead, is unchartered territory for you. And you'll find the gems. And you'll find the duds.

xxx

Pru

[orni enri]

Comparing a 100% success rate in Germany to an 80% failure rate in Ireland makes me suspect that the problem is not me.

Mabe yu aare not tawking to ze weeman ere in ze langgueage of amour oui ? zoo you zink mabe it's because you aare a weirdo ? ze germains zoo ave a soft spot for ow yu sayyyyyyy ze mucho loco oui ?

de escort ere aare like a football, u av to know ow to handle zem right