was just trying to make an appointment with a escort for ten going to be in the city later she just said call me at ten and hung up why would i bother parting with my cash if thats how she talks to me big turn off not the first time this has happened to me girls need to work on the phone manner big turn of when there rude and i find it a big turn on when there nice i know they get a lot of calls from time wasters so do i in my line of work but i still ya gotta be polite pick your game up girls
cant say that i have ever dealt with anything that bad. Must be lucky, i guess. Still that was quite unfortunate and i would hope you talked to a nicer lady after her.
i have one experience of a rude escort and it was horrible didnt even say hello just said give me money and then went ahead and did the act not a nice experience at all much mrefer it when thay are polite and chatty
if they are rude its simple try another number!
sometimes though its an 'interpreter' / pimpess who is taking the calls for many girls, so its not always the girls fault....
im sure they get loads of timewasters every day which must be tough, but then again if someone is rude to you why bother
Guys everyone has bad days but not people with a good business head.
I wouldn't be inclined to see or give my business to anyone (especially at these prices) who does not attempt to apologise afterward.
It may predict the kind of service you will get and worse still, her choice to be in the business?? Girls who are cold and rude as a form of defence mechanism do so for a reason??
I dono I am always polite regardless of my mood or the clients but then Im in by choice and have a good business head
Yeah, it's happened to myself once. I had a lady that seemed a bit short on patience over the phone, and also rather limited English as well, and that's what I believed had at least contributed to her lack seeming lack of friendliness over the phone. Got there to find her to be nearly as cold (if not worse). Tried to get a bit of conversation going, just asking her basic things about her country, and mentioning a few of the things about the country which I've always found interesting (she was from Japan, or at least that's what her profile claimed and she also said, claiming she was from Tokyo). I asked a few basic things, just in the spirit of friendly chat and conversation, and she said very rudely "I don't care about that", and an angry look flashed across her face, so I just stopped talking. Walked out of there more than a little annoyed, but kept my temper and held back on telling her what I thought of her attitude (and rather mediocre service).
I'm always willing to grant the benefit of the doubt with the girls in the industry; you never know who was there before you and how they acted, how manyy time wasters they've dealt with, you don't know what's going on in their personal lives, or what other things might be going on or had gone on that day. A few years ago I was planning to try and go see one of the ladies who was a regular poster on the boards. I was hoping for an early evening meeting, but in the afternoon she posted a thread saying that she'd been getting threatening calls from pimps all day, so I decided that I'd give her a miss that time, as she'd probbaly be in bad form, or at least not at her best.
So I guess it works both ways. We need to grant them all a bit of leeway, but hopefully they'll try to stay pleasant on the phone too-- I think I'd give a lady a miss next time if I call about making an appointment and she comes off as rude or in bad form.
Its nice that you give benefit of doubt but you dont pay big money to suffer the consequences of what went b4 you.
Would you buy insurance from a sales rep who was utterly rude?? Rude people fail in sales for this reason.
I would still be more inclined to question her reasons for being in the business or any other business if her phone manner to so poor!
You do not bring your personal life to work. You do not answer the phone if you are irate for whatever reason. You do not treat all clients like time wasters if you wish to keep business.
I am sure the girls would agree with me on this.
Oh Cable I replyed to your earlier post too.
Thanks Chardonnay, I saw your post as well over on the thread I started. Your views are much appreciated on both topics! Thanks so much!