monotony of life

[Doozer]

True but its the bits in the middle you enjoy, like when you arent fighting with in the relationship. Im not going to have to cordon off the Clarion now am I?
Just take life as it comes EXP ESQ and dont overthink it. Just enjoy whatever youve got

[Reggie]

Why not try and spice things up a little ?

Stop washing for a while, don't wipe your arse. Apparently most Irish guys don't anyway....

Try this for. a month or so, it will break the monotony.

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A "dirty protest " might have worked in The Maze but believe me it does zilch for yer Love Life.
Now monotony on its own I can handle , but monotony accompanied by no Pussy --- well, give me the rope

[Forrest]

Sorry Ex P - it's not like me to get the wrong meaning.
You might be suffering from Deja Vu or worse - Groundhog Day.

[Mr Magoo]

do u ever question life? I mean most of the things in life is doing the same things over & over again shower in the morning but you'll get dirty & have to shower again put on a bit of gel style the hair moisturiser aftershave etc. etc soon you'll get hungry eat a dinner sher you'll be hungry again later eat again make a shit or 2 a day wipe your arse then urinate throughout the day pull your mickey sack emptied but u get horny next day empty it again(big sigh)
If your lucky you'll meet a nice girl but you'll probably break up & never meet again or else you'll marry her & more than likely hate her, you'll salute people u know everyday they'll say are u well? but they dont mean it
we'll argue with each other make up or hate each other forever
Summer is coming oh ya I'll buy a lighter jacket few tshirts light shoes suntan lotion etc Winter I'll get anew coat warm sheets etc I wont go on(shaking head) the monotony of life.....

This is a common stage many of us go through in life. We start to look inside ourself and question the most rudimentary aspects of life. It happens over time and can be a bit unsettling. There is however an answer and it comes through the practice of mindfulness. Mindfulness gets you to stop looking inside yourself where you find only problems and get you looking back outside which is where all the wonderful things in the world occur.

Mindfulness is a simple practice yet the most commonly used tool by psychologists and psychiatrists around the globe today.

One of the greatest exponents of mindfulness is Jon Kabat-Zinn, you'll find him on youtube.

If you have a spare 50 minutes I would urge anyone to watch it, it's fantastic stuff.

[Westsidex]

aaaaaaah u & Westside have taken this up completely wrong.......

you are talking about the monotony of life and i am saying that when you are doing what you really want to do there isnt as much time for monotony because doing what you really want with life is self motivating.In fact there are three big reasons for so much unhappiness in this world.

(1) Ppl try to buy happiness through material items while not realizing that happiness is a state of mind.
(2) Ppl live their lives to plz those around them or be afraid of being left on their own.They dont live their lives the way that they truely want for fear of being different,isolated etc..
(3) Expecting the love and or respect of everyone that they meet.

These three are the cause of a lot of misery in this world. Ppl would do well to examine all three and see if they apply to them.

Westside.

[rover]

(2) Ppl live their lives to plz those around them or be afraid of being left on their own.

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I'd love to be left on my own, because I could then spend the rest of my life shagging escorts.


Westside.

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[stickytoffee10]

How negative can a person be? I never question life or find it monotonous. It can be boring at times yeah but i am always doing something. If you live your life like you really want it (and most ppl dont) then youll always find the motivation to do stuff. From the moment im up in the morning to the moment i go to sleep at night im doing things that i want to do and that will help me life the life i want.

I dont deal with shit that does me no good. I dont care about my neighbours tomatoes. I dont give a shit about the latest drama. I have better and more worthy things to be doing with my time.

sincerely,
Westside.

your spot on lad. 100%.

[Westsidex]

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look at the end of the day ,we have very few real friends in this life. Very few. Most of them are only there because it suits them. Like ppl that drink alot. All the friends that they have ,mr popularity but give up drinking and see what happens and where your buddies are then. Ever hear the saying "laugh and the world laughs with you but cry and you cry alone"? Thats what it means. Alot of ppl are only around because it suits them,not because of through friendship.

Fact,
Westside.

[rover]

look at the end of the day ,we have very few real friends in this life. Very few. Most of them are only there because it suits them. Like ppl that drink alot. All the friends that they have ,mr popularity but give up drinking and see what happens and where your buddies are then. Ever hear the saying "laugh and the world laughs with you but cry and you cry alone"? Thats what it means. Alot of ppl are only around because it suits them,not because of through friendship.

Fact,
Westside.

I have you Westie.

[luther]

Ppl try to buy happiness through material items while not realizing that happiness is a state of mind.

Ya your right, money can't find happiness for you, but it sure can help fund the search............

Wonder if I won the lotto tonight???