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    Red face she said she loves me

    I went missing from EI for a few weeks as I met a lovely South American girl we dated for over 2 weeks every day we just kinda chilled out she was only here for a month went home last week we talked on Skype the last 2 nights,last night she said 'I Love u'() for the first time to me balling crying she was said she missed me() have to admit I was kinda whingeing too I've been in a similar situation before long distance r/ships dont work shes committed to a decent job over there too so I told her we need to cease communication not that I dont want to find a long term love but there was no future for us being so far apart whats the point? she was hysterical & said I simply am a horrible user I'm not am I?

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    Default Ah EP..........

    Why'd ya go and say that..............

    No you're not a horrible user but would you not at least have preferred to have her as a friend you could stay in contact with that have no contact at all???

    That's what made to seem shallow...............

    You never know, you might have make her fall so deeply in love with you that she may have given up her job and moved over here just to be with you..............

    And if you're talking to her, FFS, don't tell her you visit escorts, we all know what happened the last time..........

    PS - any pics???............
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    Quote Originally Posted by Experienced Punter esq View Post
    I went missing from EI for a few weeks as I met a lovely South American girl we dated for over 2 weeks every day we just kinda chilled out she was only here for a month went home last week we talked on Skype the last 2 nights,last night she said 'I Love u'() for the first time to me balling crying she was said she missed me() have to admit I was kinda whingeing too I've been in a similar situation before long distance r/ships dont work shes committed to a decent job over there too so I told her we need to cease communication not that I dont want to find a long term love but there was no future for us being so far apart whats the point? she was hysterical & said I simply am a horrible user I'm not am I?
    of course your not long distance relationships would never work but if what your saying is true you should have really made a big effort to get her to stay here or if you really loved her you could have went home with her ...a big gamble i know but who knows it could have worked ether way

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    Quote Originally Posted by luther View Post
    Why'd ya go and say that..............

    No you're not a horrible user but would you not at least have preferred to have her as a friend you could stay in contact with that have no contact at all???

    That's what made to seem shallow...............

    You never know, you might have make her fall so deeply in love with you that she may have given up her job and moved over here just to be with you..............

    And if you're talking to her, FFS, don't tell her you visit escorts, we all know what happened the last time..........

    PS - any pics???............
    but sher the way I see it if we stay friends it can't be 'just friends' it would prevent both of us from moving on & finding someone else if I find a new girlfriend here she wont be best pleased me talking to a bird half way across the world & visa versa it would never work..

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    Ya, should have told her, look, this long distance thing isn't going to work but I really like you and I'd like to be friends and keep in contact.........

    Never burn you're bridges buddy.............
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    Quote Originally Posted by luther View Post
    Ya, should have told her, look, this long distance thing isn't going to work but I really like you and I'd like to be friends and keep in contact.........

    Never burn you're bridges buddy.............
    I guess your right in one way but its always been all or nothing with me racking my brain this evening head in hands wondering if I did the right thing
    not easy on your own with noone to share your problems.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Westsidex View Post


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    don't tempt me...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Experienced Punter esq View Post
    not easy on your own with noone to share your problems.....
    That's why we're hear for you buddy............
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    Default Here, this'll make you feel better........

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