Originally Posted by
Ebonypru38F
What I liked about the piece was the introduction. If more carers, PA's, Support Workers, and parents, could be more open minded about the sexual needs of their charges, what a difference it would make. I remember one petrified man in his 30's, with advanced Duchennes Muscular Dystrophy (DMD) who sneaked me in when his mother went out for a hospital appointment. He'd waited weeks for this opportunity, when she would leave him alone so he could lose his virginity. And he was so jumpy through-out, that as soon as the first round was over, he wanted me to leave. He didn't want to chance his luck. Fortunately, he was talked round, but I know he was mightily relieved when I left and she still hadn't returned.
His room had all of lifes comforts and luxuries crammed in to make him comfortable. But what he was screaming out for was sex. And there are many like him, that would die of shame if any one knew what they wanted. They'd feel like they were being labelled as perverts for wanting what every one else gets so casually.
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Pru