If a sex worker services a disabled person, does it reverse the taboo?

[Sexy Sandy 69]

I fully understand what Taylor was saying in relation to deaf guys & text messaging, it's just too damn dangerous to give out location details in a text messages, you really don't know who is texting you.

I have seen disable clients, I used to see a guy who was bed bound, his carers used to pay me, go out for an hour then come back, I used to tell them when I was leaving, they had no problem arranging it for the guy.

Sandy of Newcastle x

[Chairman]

What I liked about the piece was the introduction. If more carers, PA's, Support Workers, and parents, could be more open minded about the sexual needs of their charges, what a difference it would make. I remember one petrified man in his 30's, with advanced Duchennes Muscular Dystrophy (DMD) who sneaked me in when his mother went out for a hospital appointment. He'd waited weeks for this opportunity, when she would leave him alone so he could lose his virginity. And he was so jumpy through-out, that as soon as the first round was over, he wanted me to leave. He didn't want to chance his luck. Fortunately, he was talked round, but I know he was mightily relieved when I left and she still hadn't returned.

His room had all of lifes comforts and luxuries crammed in to make him comfortable. But what he was screaming out for was sex. And there are many like him, that would die of shame if any one knew what they wanted. They'd feel like they were being labelled as perverts for wanting what every one else gets so casually.

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Pru

Very well said pru. Several of my male friends and a lady all who have hight level disability are so sexually frustrated and would feel like a pervert if they asked a carer for assistance to meet their needs. A female wheelchair user i know can only ask one of her five careers for her vibrator if she wants it when she is in bed.
I will have to start lobbyont the irish goverment for grants to visit escorts. Imagine the look on Mary Harneys face.

[Experienced Punter esq]

What I liked about the piece was the introduction. If more carers, PA's, Support Workers, and parents, could be more open minded about the sexual needs of their charges, what a difference it would make. I remember one petrified man in his 30's, with advanced Duchennes Muscular Dystrophy (DMD) who sneaked me in when his mother went out for a hospital appointment. He'd waited weeks for this opportunity, when she would leave him alone so he could lose his virginity. And he was so jumpy through-out, that as soon as the first round was over, he wanted me to leave. He didn't want to chance his luck. Fortunately, he was talked round, but I know he was mightily relieved when I left and she still hadn't returned.

His room had all of lifes comforts and luxuries crammed in to make him comfortable. But what he was screaming out for was sex. And there are many like him, that would die of shame if any one knew what they wanted. They'd feel like they were being labelled as perverts for wanting what every one else gets so casually.

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Pru

ya thats an excellent & very thoughtful post I hadnt been reading this forum recently, u see society first & foremostly does not see people with disabilities as sexual beings as sick people & some personal assstants/carers simply think that way too, I've been lucky in this regard with personal assistants but either way a personal with a disability needs to be clear with his carer that these needs need to be fulfilled & he needs these sexual urges to be released he must tell his carer to set him up on the bed for example(undress wash him ) to meet his girlfriend or escort! I'd advise any person with a diability use an escort fora callout tell the carer to get u ready off u go......

[Irish Sean]

Silly question, but are there male escorts who provide for disabled female clients? Unlike what people usually think and/or believe single women definitely have needs that cannot be replaced by shopping. And I guess disabled women are no exception.

Yes I don't have any problem seeing disabled clients and would be able to show them a good time.

[JohnRambo]

When you read stories like Ebonypru and EbonyRenee’s it really does show you how hard it is for some disabled people to have some kinda of sex life, pretty sad, but fair play to both ladies for trying their best and doing everything they could to help both lads out, nice one ladies.

John.

[Natural_brownsugar]

I'm sorry but I fail to see where the bitchyness was in Taylor post that you quoted...........

She quite clearly said she welcomes disabled clients and that she felt guilty about not being able to see his because of the security issue............

Where's that bitchy???

That's BS, sadly most do get fakers, even the good ones who do a good job and "keep it real".............

You had 2 bad clients, does that mean that you're not good???

That guy was deaf! Lot off girls want you to call them and make an appointment! When you are deaf you can't call someone and make a booking with out a strage voice/tone... Lot of girls hang up! when he text the girls that he was deaf they were so rude. he showed me some reply's!

Im not bitchy to taylor I don't know her, i speak about it in general! This deaf guy came on msn webcam, so I knew he was serious!
And yes often the girls who have the real bad experience with clients said something before what pist them off! Also I worked once with a girl who had realy old picture's of herself, on daily base clients walk away, ore ask their money back, ore even just run away!

So yeah I know where my opinion is coming from Luther! I got robt once, I didn't hide my money stupid mistake! Learn from it and had a fake garda on the door! He thought I was illegal and wanted to scare me for free sex... I just simple told him to piss off ore i would call the real garda for him!

I only don't do physical disabled because of the appartment's where i often are not okay for it... when there is a lift ore im on the groundfloor i do. Mental disabled i don't do, im not a made for that...

[thehighwayman]

Well done to EbonyPru and EbonyRenee. I hope theres more escorts that choose to do this special thing if not I hope it inspires more to do so. I just take it for granted phoning an escort and walking into an appartment. We sometimes don't realise what it's like for disabled people. It's difficult for all disabled people to see escorts or have any sort of sexual activity I'm sure but it must be really hard for housebound people. Alot of planning goes into it. If theres carerers or friends they can trust and escorts like Pru and Renee then theres no reason why they should miss out.

[El Gordo]

Silly question, but are there male escorts who provide for disabled female clients? Unlike what people usually think and/or believe single women definitely have needs that cannot be replaced by shopping. And I guess disabled women are no exception.

Somehow I suspect I am going to regret asking this, but why only single women?

[magicalman9357]

Some very good and interesting points here. I guess at the end of the day it's a personal choice whether or not to participate. Personally if I were an escort I would have no problem at all visiting disabled clients but I also realise that's easy for me to say being male and not being an escort.

[benben]

From what I understand this guy os from England so why is he going to Holland to meet an escort ?

The man who drives the car is his dad ?