The way I see it is like this mate and this is only my opinion from my own personal experience, I’m not an expert on the subject and can only give you advice on my own personal experiences and remember this is not coming from an able bodied bloke this is coming from someone who knows what they are talking about because I’m a wheelchair user and so have been there and got the t-shirt.
In my opinion mrniceguy I think it is very wrong and unfair not to inform the escort beforehand you are disabled. You cannot even begin to compare this business regarding equality with services. You have to remember the nature of this business were the lady you are going to see just like any woman has the right to be intimate or not intimate as she chooses. This is a very unique and sensitive matter where you are dealing with being sexually intimate with another human being and so they have the right without question who they feel comfortable with and who they don’t.
You also have to remember mrniceguy there are people in society who have never had much contact with a disabled person and find it difficult enough just talking to a disabled person and being is there company how do you think would feel for a girl again who may not have had much contact with people with disabilities in a normal situation never mind meeting them for an escort / client appointment?
I can tell you here and now it’s to both parties interests the you are upfront and honest about your disability when making the booking because if you do arrive there and have not told the lady you are disabled she may feel uncomfortable you will pick up on it and so for both parties this will have been a very difficult and awkward appointment for both of you.
Be honest, be upfront and tell the lady as it will make for a far better experience for both of you my friend.