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    I phoned a girl earlier, the call lasted about 30 seconds. This is my first time doing this so I'm pretty nervous, I asked could I come over at 8pm and she said she wasn't sure and to call her 15 minutes before 8pm. Like I said this is my first time doing this and it's all new to me, so I could have handled the call a little better, but I didn't know what to say, she didn't help the conversation either.

    Problem is, it would take me about an hour and a half just to get there, I'm not really in the mood to go all the way out there for nothing. I thought it was a bit short notice calling, but 15 minutes before hand is a bit late to confirm don't you think?

    She didn't sound too happy on the phone either and now I'm not sure if I want to go through with it, all I can picture is awkward moody sex. Her reviews say she is good but so far I'm not seeing it. I'm a virgin and just want to have sex, the last thing I want is her to be pissed off when I'm not doing so great. Better that at least one of us knows what we're doing than a drunken mess after a night out.

    For some reason I was picturing myself getting extra special treatment for being a virgin and her room mate joining in, I don't know why though, doubt that would happen anyway. I would love to lose it in a threesome though.
    Last edited by YesIWouldLikeSomePancakes; 07-04-10 at 17:13.

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    Don't bother your arse, mate. I think punters should come off the phone with a specific time and a rough idea of where to go, and call back for specific directions when they're almost there. I've found the best way to make enquiries with an escort is through E-I's private messenging system a couple of days beforehand.

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    I think you would be wise to hold off a while. Its not her fault if she did not know your reason for booking and she probably took your being a bit nervy on the phone as possibly being someone just wasting her time so she was never going to take a chance on missing a real booking by just assuming you would honor the booking.

    Having said that, the "real" professionals would probably pick up on someone who is nervous and tell them apart from a time waster and you would be better off avoiding her given her phone manner unless you made a complete hash of the call or something.

    Whatever you do you should at least ask here for first time friendly Escorts as there are many so now that you've posted I am sure you will get directed in the right direction if this is truly the course you wish to follow.

    Be far better to stall it a little and find out who would suit your requirements by posting here rather then just go on a cold and perfunctory phone call as you may regret that forever more, there are some genuinely lovely and warm ladies here so please make use of this forum and not just a telephone manner for such an important decision...

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    I'm a bit disappointed about the call, I was hoping for something a bit more friendly and more informative. I forgot to introduce myself, that's my fault. But she could have said something like "I'm not sure about 8pm, I have X PM free if that's ok with you" not just "not sure call me back". It kinda put me off.

    I like to plan things, so I was at home on Google Maps getting directions to her general area and planning what time to get the bus and how long it would take to walk there, I spent ages shaving down there and all

    I know they try to avoid time wasters and all that, but if I have to confirm 15 minutes beforehand I'm assuming she was confirming if another client was going at 8 or not?

    Adding to that, another girl I was really interested in isn't on the site anymore

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    Quote Originally Posted by YesIWouldLikeSomePancakes View Post
    I'm a bit disappointed about the call, I was hoping for something a bit more friendly and more informative. I forgot to introduce myself, that's my fault. But she could have said something like "I'm not sure about 8pm, I have X PM free if that's ok with you" not just "not sure call me back". It kinda put me off.

    I like to plan things, so I was at home on Google Maps getting directions to her general area and planning what time to get the bus and how long it would take to walk there, I spent ages shaving down there and all

    I know they try to avoid time wasters and all that, but if I have to confirm 15 minutes beforehand I'm assuming she was confirming if another client was going at 8 or not?

    Adding to that, another girl I was really interested in isn't on the site anymore
    If they don't know you from a hole in the wall then it is the very rare Escort that is going to enage in anything more then bare bones details - times - services. Its just not going to happen on a first call to a complete stranger. If you wish to avoid what you are saying then really you have ony one option, take part here and get chatting or exchange a few pm's etc.

    and rule number one... do not introduce yourself as anything other then your username (but thats a bit of a mouthful) or a made up name, they will not be telling you theirs.

    It great that you have manners and polite and they are probably the two things all escorts like to see in any client but no point in being polite to the point of compromising yourself, not to an escort that you have just rung for first time.

    There are people here just itching to cause you real problems in the real world and spend most everyday toward that end and some escorts cant keep the mouth shut and pass around info on the grapevine.

    Some very nice people here also but I am just telling you like it is and you need to look out for yourself.

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    Right, I'm now looking at 4 girls, 2 of which are registered on the forum. I'll have a look at their reviews and get in contact with the ones on the forum. Guess I won't be getting any tonight

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    Well... 15 mins in advance is a quite short time...I think that the optimal time is 30 mins up to 1 hour. If you live far away you should have told the girl straight over the phone. She would have told you to call her before you will go and confirm your appointment. These days nobody books this long in advance, from 90% this person doesn't show up then and we just loose the time. I sometimes tell my clients to call me 20 mins in advance to confirm they are comming, if they don't do so then i automatically cancel our appointment. I don't have a time and a mood to be waiting for time wasters. But i can see you aren't in a good mood today.... Maybe just leave it for someother time and if it's like that or you then enjoy it and be in form. I am sure, that the girl meant it in a good way.
    Regarding your phonecall....sometimes it's tirering when you received 20 phonecalls asking the same in a one day. It's about things they can see on the website, you have to repeat it again and again and half of them don't even plan to come to visit you....that makes you feel very tired if you have to repeat the same thing that many times...But that doesn't mean that in person we wouldnt be nice and kind...Good luck next time.

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    Thanks for all the info, she has a good few reviews so she probably is quite busy. I guess I should have told I live far away, but the call was kind of hurried and as I was nervous I wasn't thinking. Maybe she was just having a bad day or something. At least now I have a better insight to what I'm doing.

    I'm still new to this though, how often do you guys call in advance? What do you usually say over the phone? What about when you get there? Does the time start when I get there or when we start having fun?
    Last edited by YesIWouldLikeSomePancakes; 07-04-10 at 19:30.

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