I don't have a partner/wife (wouldn't visit escorts if I did) and close friends know I have no objections to seeing an escort but not all know I do in Ireland (We nearly all have in Amsterdam), so for me people finding out isn't a big deal but I still wouldn't want to draw attention to it. I don't like visiting escorts in hotels although I do. The reason being it feels like staff know why you are there. Wouldn't be hard to notice a particular room has a lot of visitors. I prefer apartments in the city centre. They not in residential areas, usually easy to find and no one takes any notice of you.