Losing virginity to an escort

[User180209]

You can always be smart like me and sell your virginity to the highest bidder. Im up to a pack of smarties and a can of coke now. Yup life is good

Life's just about to get better. My mate (female) says she'll match that and throw in an assortment of spare buttons

[Doozer]

We have a winning bid, any one else top that.

Ps im soooooooooo glad you mentioned the female part, was getting a bit worried there for a sec

[User180209]

On a long enough timeline, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero

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[Doozer]

Well she has to beat your friends bid to get me (although if she does make a bid it will be the winning one reguardless)

[Forrest]

to be honest going to an escort to lose your virginity is not going to make the shyness go away... and the truth be told it is no shame to be still a virgin...

It may not make the shyness go away, but it may give him a bit of confidence with ladies.

I would agree with Anon361, Sweet Cherri would be a great choice.

[sharkskin]

I think that advice such as "Good idea" or "Bad idea" is unhelpful to you.

It is only you who can decide what is right for you.

I will say though that there is nothing inherently wrong with this way.

People on this forum can however give you a lot of very good advice on how to go about things if you decide to try this.

The first thing that you must do is choose the right escort. I agree with Blackoutrocks, I can think of no escort who would be even half as good as Mandy in this situation. She is not in Ireland right now but I would expect her to come back soon. If you get confident suggestions from other forum members about somebody in Belfast then trust them.

When choosing an escort for this purpose, do make sure that you pick somebody with good English skills and also look for somebody who has good reviews from clients who have spent more then 30 minutes with her. Good English does not have to mean English as a first language. Many escorts from Central or Eastern Europe have very good English and can also make interesting conversation with you.

If you see an escort, make sure that you book for longer than 30 minutes and also, make sure that you explain the situation fully. It is a basic fact of nature that, on your first time, you are almost certain to cum very quickly. Perhaps even before the escort is able to put a condom on you. However, if you have explained the situation to her, she will be neither surprised nor put off. If the escort does not know what is going on then she may just decide to get you cleaned up, out of the door and gone as quickly as she can. You are young enough that, if you have booked an hour, you will certainly be able to have at least one more go and that will be much much better than the first.

That is why you should look for an escort who has good reviews from clients who have spent at least an hour with her. You do not want to be sitting there with some bored girl who is unable to engage with you until you are ready to have another try.

There was an interesting post on the internationalsexguide Germany forum by a pair of US based software engineers who traveled to Germany to lose their virginity in a marathon trip round some of the most famous German FKK and PT clubs. They certainly had a good time. I tried to find that post over on ISG but failed. Perhaps someone else here can find it or has bookmarked it?

If you decide to try it then good luck but do remember one other very important thing. At the end, this will have been a commercial transaction. If it has gone well, it will be stunningly memorable for you but don't make the mistake of then falling in love with the escort.

[Doozer]

as far as I know Doozer lost his virginity in patcave. dont know who is responsible for poppin his cherry.

anyways, good luck and have safe fun.

Nic

Im sure you dont but shhhhhhhh keep it quiet or ill lose my assorted sweet collection

[Lincoln]

I lost my virginity to a workin girl many years ago, theres no harm or shame in it mate if its what ya want to do. Getting off the mark, so to speak, will give you valuable experience in discovering what you like and how to navigate your way around a girls body but this should obviously be only a stepping stone towards cultivating intimate relationships with girls you meet (I would think)
lincoln

btw I fully endorse Anon361 recommendation of Sweet Cherri, i wish she'd been on the scene 15 years ago....

[BelfastK]

Thanks for the suggestions fellas, it's appreciated. And yes, I have given this a great deal of thought and it isn't that I see virginity as a burden or anything it's just that I want to experience being with a woman at least once and as I said, I've never really picked up how to talk to women and when I've tried it has always ended badly for me.

I was on the verge of doing this a couple of years back but backed down thinking it was too drastic a step, but after a lot of thought and a grim brush with my own mortality not long ago I want to know what physical intimacy feels like and I'm pretty sure this is the only way this is going to happen for me.

I am seriously considering Sweet Cherri, Angel or Layla right now, as they are all pretty stunning looking women.

I'll let you all know what happens. Thanks again

[Dirty Harry]

Thanks for the suggestions fellas, it's appreciated. And yes, I have given this a great deal of thought and it isn't that I see virginity as a burden or anything it's just that I want to experience being with a woman at least once and as I said, I've never really picked up how to talk to women and when I've tried it has always ended badly for me.

I was on the verge of doing this a couple of years back but backed down thinking it was too drastic a step, but after a lot of thought and a grim brush with my own mortality not long ago I want to know what physical intimacy feels like and I'm pretty sure this is the only way this is going to happen for me.

I am seriously considering Sweet Cherri, Angel or Layla right now, as they are all pretty stunning looking women.

I'll let you all know what happens. Thanks again

go have fun amigo ....enjoy