Emotionally Involved

[the landcruiser]

i did once happened so fast that i fell of my feet, went to see an escort monday, she took a shine to me, tuesday we txt each other all day and wednesday night we went out and had a brilliant night together and it went from there, but now i look back and think fuck i was trying to live a dream, every mans dream to try and date a beautiful but fantastic escort, i had enjoyed it when it was happening, but it got complecated and it turned out bad, and i lost not a beautiful lady but a good friend as well, so these days i just go do what i have to do and leave its easier!

sorry to hear that you lost a good friend man, i admire your honesty in the above quote, i got very personal with one escort we used to ring and text each other every day and had some great times together, i really enjoyed her company and we got on well too in fairness it was never going anywhere so in the end it just frizzeled out and we went our separate ways and no real harm was done, we still send the odd text and email now and again, but i often think if things had stayed going the way they were would we of fell for each other or would we of both got badly hurt

[Westsidex]

Afternoon all.

Was thinking about this, this morning. Has anyone unintentionally got emotionally involved with and escort or an escort with a client?

Well i dont know if there is any such thing as unintentional emotional involvment but i think it happens everyone but needs to be watched as i dont think its good for the head at all.

Westside.

[Mioux]

escorts meet with men they don't want to sleep with/don't have any connection with/don't like all the time!

it's all part of the job. it's the trying to overcome this feeling of NOT wanting to sleep with them and go through with it, is when it becomes unhealthy for the escort. which is what happened to me, which is why i don't do it anymore. I still find the whole business absolutely interesting though.

there was one client that i definitely had a huge atttraction to, and wouldnt have said no if he wanted to see me again separate to escorting, but i dont think he saw me in that way. And there was one client who was unwashed, totally rude and treated me like shit, tried to have anal repeatedly while i kept saying no, practically choked me with his cock while he watched football on tv. and i STILL had to sleep with him. shudder, that was bad, and that was when i decided to quit.

It's so nice to meet so many lovely people, some really really nice men, but it isnt worth it for me when i felt myself being degraded like that.
Anyway sorry bit of a ramble there,

all in all, i'd say it's pretty dangerous territory, but it's a difficult one because as someone said, it is such a bonding experience. The body releases a hormone called oxytocin, which is also present in breastmilk, which is a bonding hormone, and thats what causes that after sex glowy feeling, and the desire to cuddle in females.
so there, bit of science for you.
sorry for going off topic.

[luther]

Actually I know of such a case with a happy ending (they got married).

God someone should make a movie about that, maybe put Richard Gere and Julia Robert in it..............

[Mousey]

Come one, all this "intimate bonding" talk is twaddle. Both sexes are quite capable of having sex with someone and not getting emotionally involved. I put it to you that the vast majority of escorts and regular punters are those types of people.

[JAMESCORK]

sorry to hear that you lost a good friend man, i admire your honesty in the above quote, i got very personal with one escort we used to ring and text each other every day and had some great times together, i really enjoyed her company and we got on well too in fairness it was never going anywhere so in the end it just frizzeled out and we went our separate ways and no real harm was done, we still send the odd text and email now and again, but i often think if things had stayed going the way they were would we of fell for each other or would we of both got badly hurt

Hey Landcruiser, lets not fool ourselves, Theres is only one person that will get hurt usually...

[chanusi]

The body releases a hormone called oxytocin, which is also present in breastmilk, which is a bonding hormone, and thats what causes that after sex glowy feeling, and the desire to cuddle in females.
so there, bit of science for you.
sorry for going off topic.

True word's from Mia,also Dopamine and works on both sex's ,fades in time as does attraction,happens a lot on making out(kissing),cuddling can be quite nice too with the right lady

[Alec Horan]

i am quite stunned at the resulte of this poll - the idea of me becoming emotionally attached to an escort based on one or two meetings is nigh on impossible - based on my life to date that is

to be honest - and forgive me, serious, for a moment- i am generally most surprised at how quickly and how often couples become 'attached'- i think i am something an emotional black hole

i sometimes envy such passion in others but more often thn not am most happy that i am the way i am

different strokes etc etc

[Prickly]

There was one lady i couldn't get out of my mind for a while afterwards. And then it passed. I wouldn't call it emotionally attached - she just pressed the right buttons.
I used to fall in love ten times a day.... and then, sadly, I grew up!

[User180209]

there was one client who was unwashed, totally rude and treated me like shit, tried to have anal repeatedly while i kept saying no, practically choked me with his cock while he watched football on tv. and i STILL had to sleep with him. shudder, that was bad, and that was when i decided to quit.

Fuck me that is all kinds of wrong! I had the impression it was just a case of sleeping with men you're not attracted to. Would you not of just stopped Mia and told him to leave?