Emotionally Involved

[El Gordo]

This is the only place i can talk about escorting. no one in my life knows about it, obviously. so i have no one to talk to about it.
Thanks for always listening to me, everyone on EI.

Im going through some major changes at the moment, but this place, whether its a good thing or a bad thing, feels like people understand me.

No need to explain or apologise. You are always welcome here.

[cavanman]

Everyone I meet I have an emotional connection too, especially anyone I have been intimate with. To have sex with someone and have nothing, no feelings seems nuts. Its the depth of these feeling that count and during intimatice they can be very strong but with this type of interaction they dont linger for long after. Where as if you really love someone the depth of this feeling remains much longer.

For instance I heard that a girl I had a one night stand with 20years ago and never met again was departed. After hearing it I was definintly sad so yes I am emotionally involved yet didnt even know her or see her for years.

Yet lately I am beginning to see not all people are like this as a friend told me recently that he was not overly bothered on hearing the news his father was dead and doesnt think his mothers death will effect him either.

But outside escorting many relationships are built for reasons of money so are they any different

[wanted the best 69]

just a thought on this, many marriages/ relationships are also based on money, guy/ woman goes broke, he/shes gone, so maybe be the question is wider?

[cavanman]

just a thought on this, many marriages/ relationships are also based on money, guy/ woman goes broke, he/shes gone, so maybe be the question is wider?

Ditto.....

My cats a better dancer

[Mioux]

just a thought on this, many marriages/ relationships are also based on money, guy/ woman goes broke, he/shes gone, so maybe be the question is wider?

not quite the same thing as paying for an hour of sex in fairness.

[the good guy]

i was having a chat with an escort and i told her about the night before and the fun i had with my mates the night before. i asked her if she went out much and she said not as often as she would like.She said that mabee i could take her out on a date sometime and she was deadly serious. I just laughed it off and said yea " imagine that " and i changed the subject.I don't think i could get involved with an escort like that because im a jelous type of guy and it would drive me crazy/

[Just_joe]

I really only see the same girls now and it can be nice to go on a date etc... But I always keep this in the back of my mind. This is her job and you are a punter. After she spends this special time with you she starts all over again with the next guy. Some girls are soo good at their job that they can make you think that you ARE the special one. Yeah right. She doesn't kiss the other guys like that, just you. Yeah Right again. Nobody else has my private number just you. Yeah right again.

Now I dont want to seem totally negative here, maybe you have found a girl that is really into you, but usually this rarely happens. Best of luck anyway but proceed with caution.

Have to agree with this post. It never fails to amaze me when i go to a brothel or a strip club with mates on a stag or holidays etc and there's always one guy who comes out afterwards convinced that he was more then just another punter to one of the strippers..

These girls are pro's (no pun intended) and its their job to make you feel like a million dollars and they know every trick in the book to get you to empty your wallet (the strippers that is).

Most escorts are the same... I'll admit that it took me a while to cop on to this myself, i remember my first few punts.. I was on cloud nine leaving their apartment - convinced that something beyond the usual client-escort appointment had occurred .. stupid things like the girl joining you in the shower afterwards, or that time she looked you in the eye for a few seconds too long, or the fact she let you stay for 2 hours when you only paid for one.. but its all BS. Even if she texts you afterwards or the next day, even if she rings you in the middle of the night when she's drunk... its all just to get you to come back because they want the safety and comfort of a "regular" and at best the only reason she shows a bit more interest in you then the others is because your half way attractive, or half way charming or you're good with your tongue

[the good guy]

I did fall in love with a client once and so did he. I'v payed a huge price for that. Never gonna make that mistake again.

why what happened?

[JAMESCORK]

i was having a chat with an escort and i told her about the night before and the fun i had with my mates the night before. i asked her if she went out much and she said not as often as she would like.She said that mabee i could take her out on a date sometime and she was deadly serious. I just laughed it off and said yea " imagine that " and i changed the subject.I don't think i could get involved with an escort like that because im a jelous type of guy and it would drive me crazy/

Why not go out with her. Remember a lot of girls are lonely and bored working in a strange country. If she offers this it is like a cry out for decent and intelligent company to break the mundane job she may have to do day in day out. Why not treat yourself and at the same time treat her to an enjoyable evening. Tse, I do.

[Ric Hardgear]

Theres a thread starting inside this thread which is would you date an escort? I for one would not because its a business arrangement,now if I was dating a girl and she told me she IS an escort I would dump her, BUT if when I met a girl and she WAS an escort emm I dont know.On the other hand if I was dating a girl and she asked me have you ever paid for sex? Id say no fecking way,because I dont know any girl not in the business who would understand why guys see escorts