Emotionally Involved

[User180209]

Some men and women can be clingy. Search for something to hold onto to make sense of their crap lives, as the case may be. But then there’s also the opposite; cold, emotionless souls who feel nothing and have no respect or consideration for others. I think somewhere bang on in the dead center between the 2 is very healthy ground to be at, for any person. Men look for intimacy through sex whilst women look for sex through intimacy. That’s the way it is.

I think there’s a film about this exact topic. Called ‘The girlfriend experience’, filmed in New York i think. The main actress is actually an American porn star as far as i recall. Only 20 or 21 i believe. Would be a reasonably good flick perhaps. Meant to get it but time slipped by, as does happen. Came out early this year or maybe last year. Young chap loses his mind over her, something like that. Truth is some escorts are so good at their job and offer such professional GFE that some interpret it as just that, a GIRLFRIEND experience. Obviously this probably occurs unintentionally. There’s all sorts roaming this world. Probably why really young chaps really should avoid punting, for their own good. But the little head always tries to tell the big head what to do. Such is life..

Strangely enough I watched this film earlier. It's interesting to start but there's no story, waste of time. Sasha Grey plays the escort. Her character is a knob.

p.s. it's not about some guy losing his mind over her. It's just about her work, her live in boyfriend and a client she falls for. But throughout the film nothing really happens.

[Bodybuilder]

for me i dont think its possible to get emotionally attached to someone you just met a few times and i dont think its a wise thing to do to get attached but im sure it has happened to some people

[Bilbo Baggins]

Yes its possible...... it happened to me. Thank God she left the country ...

[Bodybuilder]

she left the shire? maybe she eloped with gandalf

[Bodybuilder]

I love it when that happens :-)

I would think that its the last thing an escort would want, a client getting emotionally attached

[piggi]

Has anyone unintentionally got emotionally involved with and escort ...

Yes - I developed feelings for an escort once. We came close to having a "relationship", I think, but it didn't get that far. We both realised that it could only lead to heartache in the long run, as she had no intention of changing careers.

Not an easy situation for either party. Took me a long time to get over her.

[zatrina mya]

we are all Human fell deeply with a client still nursing a broken heart three months down never will it happen again

[Mousey]

Well, it depends on the escort
Dont forget, escorts are humans too
And... some of us look at our "jobs" as "spreading the love" and we are walking/talking PEACE SIGNS. It nice when we get some lov'n back. Or at least this is the way I feel.

I got some love right here in my pants for you, Dolly

[Westsidex]

I got some love right here in my pants for you, Dolly

your brain,
Westside.

[Mousey]

your brain,Westside.

Why are you being mean to me, Westie?