when i was with my ex he wanted to try it so when i had had too much pop i thought fuck it why not. it hurt like hell although he was being gentle and it did nothing for me at all he got something out of it cant think why, at least he did all the work that night
safer sex is better
I sent your comment to my friend, Tristan Taormino, author of "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women" and an award winning columnist and sex educator. She had this to say about your comment Leah...
"unrealistic fears and wild imaginations abound... what can I say?
Unfortunately I hear it all too often.
TT "
(check the link for proof)
Also having anal sex is different than vaginal sex, you have to have patience and open honest communication with your partner, you just can't plug away, if you that of course it will hurt.
I mean if I get into a car and try to drive, and I have never taken a lesson before I will probably end up hurting myself or at the very least wrecking the car.
I guess i am fed up with ignorant and naive views about anal sex, people need to be educated before they judge.