Punters and Escorts becoming Punters and Escorts!

[mrbeckham]

Toolbox, thats not very nice
Looks like an informed, open minded contribution from were i'm standing

And dirtyharry please do try and refrain from such hurtful comments lol
And for the record chap, male sexual history is a very different matter to female sexual history

And indeed i am mrbeckham mr.dirtyharry unless you'd like to call me david beckham or something


Have a nice day ladies!

[Dirty Harry]

Toolbox, thats not very nice
Looks like an informed, open minded contribution from were i'm standing

And dirtyharry please do try and refrain from such hurtful comments lol
And for the record chap, male sexual history is a very different matter to female sexual history

And indeed i am mrbeckham mr.dirtyharry unless you'd like to call me david beckham or something


Have a nice day ladies!

well thats your opinion ........just remember opinions are like arse holes everybody got one and i dont think anyone here care's much about yours

[thehighwayman]

Just because their escorts doesn't mean their messed up. That's stereotyping. I'm sure there must be some messed up but people are messed up regardless of what they do. The ones I've met are more together than people I know outside escorting. Their some of the nicest peole you'll ever meet. I have never seen any under the influence either.

[Epsilon]

In general I think :

A. A woman is generally in a fucked up situation to become an escort

B. in general a man is in a fucked up situation to purchase sex that is pointless apart the very brief pleasure of shagging an Italian or Eastern European escort who is just like a model and you wouldn’t have a chance in hell to ever ride her without the financial transaction of cashish. Basically she’d never allow you to try and chat her up in the traditional sense (i.e. In an Irish pub, sloshed with a massive pair of beer goggles)

In my informed opinion and I’m probably going to get fucked senseless out of it for saying this here: I’ve seen several escorts who are simply UDI and I know this for sure as I had a major stimulant addiction myself, some years ago and did a very painful stint in rehab. Some are “sex addicts”. Many are bipolar, love impulsivity, risk, adventure, excitement and get a seriously intense trill out of NSA sex just as punters also do. Basically when a girl becomes an escort she will never see men in the same light ever again, she sees the dark animalistic side of sexuality, commitment will never be the same, genuine intimacy will never be the same and the prospect of marriage and kids will seem like a really, really fucked up idea unless the “lucky” fiancée happens to be a billionaire who will be able to fund her intense, deep rooted ‘money-grabbing’ disposition.
Some have been raped and they can never trust or commit to a man again so they see a grand career for selling pointless sex to men who she detests because of what happened her. In a messed up way it’s her idea of getting revenge against male oppression. How many escorts have you seen who are really aggressive, rude, impolite, crap at sex and are simply ‘male-eating wh*res’

In saying all this 300 escorts trade in Dublin and I think to myself, how to f*ck can so many men feel the need to purchase sex. Personally I think many Irish girls are frigid as concrete, self conscious of their bodies, no sense of sexual adventure and f*cking utterly sh*te in bed and therefore many other Irish men must see them in the same light. With 300 escorts in one small city, I look around and wonder how many men in the office do what I do, how many mates in the pub do this, how many men at a family weeding do this, how many mates on the rugby pitch so the same.

A LOT of them must, it seems….

What a load of Bullshit!!!!
And what exactly have you based your ramblings on?
Have you got first hand knowledge of what an escort goes through?
Have you ever sat with an escort and discussed your theory?
Or is this just another case of somebody liking to hear their own voice?

Beckham you seem to full of negativity and just out to shock and cause arguments.. whats your real agenda?

[Rockman]

Very opinionated for someone who has just joined the EI fourm.

I find this thread insulting and don't believe it deserve any more time.

[Lincoln]

Well, buried in Becksy's invective there are some valid points:

Sometimes its difficult not to contemplate how a given girl or woman has reached a point in her life where she is making a living as an escort.

Sometimes its difficult not to contemplate just how many blokes you know through out your life actually recreationally visit escorts (four lads I know have disclosed to me over the years that they have paid for sex, personally I just can't fess up like that, I'm a pussy I suppose).

You can characterise the escort or punter as "fucked up" but why not try be a bit more empathetic? Where would the harm in that be?

I don't really understand why there is such a hard edge to Becksy's postings but to be fair to the lad he's entitled to his opinions and who's to say that sometimes maybe he regrets the invective.

One thing I do concur with Mrbeckham on is that the sex is, unfortunately, largely pointless or rather the transaction is unavoidably superficial for the most part and this, I am sorry to say, can leave a large black hole in your centre which can make you a very cold person.

I think all of us should periodically take a long hard look at why we do the things we do (both punter and escort alike) and we should look at all the many reasons (we've been hurt, messed around, we're horny, we're heart-broken, we're lonely, we're afraid, we're depressed, we need money, we need diversion, we need excitement) we do it. We need to do that and then we need to balance it up against our selves and what we feel our worth is and then make a decision about how we'll go on.
lincoln

[mrbeckham]

Well, buried in Becksy's invective there are some valid points:

Sometimes its difficult not to contemplate how a given girl or woman has reached a point in her life where she is making a living as an escort.

Sometimes its difficult not to contemplate just how many blokes you know through out your life actually recreationally visit escorts (four lads I know have disclosed to me over the years that they have paid for sex, personally I just can't fess up like that, I'm a pussy I suppose).

You can characterise the escort or punter as "fucked up" but why not try be a bit more empathetic? Where would the harm in that be?

I don't really understand why there is such a hard edge to Becksy's postings but to be fair to the lad he's entitled to his opinions and who's to say that sometimes maybe he regrets the invective.

One thing I do concur with Mrbeckham on is that the sex is, unfortunately, largely pointless or rather the transaction is unavoidably superficial for the most part and this, I am sorry to say, can leave a large black hole in your centre which can make you a very cold person.

I think all of us should periodically take a long hard look at why we do the things we do (both punter and escort alike) and we should look at all the many reasons (we've been hurt, messed around, we're horny, we're heart-broken, we're lonely, we're afraid, we're depressed, we need money, we need diversion, we need excitement) we do it. We need to do that and then we need to balance it up against our selves and what we feel our worth is and then make a decision about how we'll go on.
lincoln

Hows it going. fair play lad, with a post like that you certainly know your stuff. Its more intellignet then others saying "what a load of crap etc". if it were all crap i wouldnt have wrote it, simple as that.

Anyway some people just love living in denial and thats what they'll always do and will lash out at anybody who has potential to alter their messed up concept of factual (sometimes dark) reality

However lincoln thats a very interesting input you gave, i like your thinking


PS: saw your reviews, met that lolita chick myself few months ago, incredible, had that cool energetic (hyper) vibe going on which is fairly hard to find at times Trust the madridians.Nice

[mrbeckham]

You clearly have low self esteem. May I suggest you seek professional help! I would add that perhaps if you have nothing constructive to add to this site you log on elsewhere.

And for the record, this is very rich coming from a lad with 5 posts, 2 reviews and from 'the north' with a sh*thole like belfast in the name

Dont worry mate, i've booked myself in tomorrow with your sister, for some much needed professional help, as you recommended

Bye, bye

[Dirty Harry]

i live in meath myself but not from there i couldn't help but notice your location says mighty meath surely he meant mighty mouth ....trying to wear this site down with his crap