I only go see high end ladies darling, I don't do pennies ladies.
Just saying I have seen few supposed to be high end ladies using baby wipes while I am getting dressed to leave.
Ah, after you? That's not proof. They might not shower right away, just wipe the icky part, text, snack, relax, and shower right before the next guy. Still high-end.
Don't wait to get confident. Just do it, and eventually the confidence will follow.