Treat Her With Respect

[oddball]

I get the word "goddess" alot from my Twitter which makes me laugh because when I'm not working I'm usually to be found in slippers fighting with the dishwasher, cribbing about some referee or other, roaring at d nieces & nephews that Im
putting them all up for adoption coz they're gonna drive me to drink, goddess indeed.

Just like a modern Aphrodite... or maybe Hera, think she tended to be crankier with her nieces and nephews.
But to be fair Zeus was always cheating on her so who can blame her for being a little moody.

[AngelsFan]

Less annoying, but I’ve grown to dislike that much overused phrase on here “to our shores”

It's usually brought out when welcoming a new escort to Ireland, or welcoming a favourite escort back again. It’s a little too poetic, or ornate or something.

“I'd like to welcome to our shores..”

So she won’t be touring further inland then? Strictly coastal locations for this lady.

[JennyIrish]

I can understand why you didn't go ahead with that meeting.I d be like WTF ..especially that many times in space of 10 mins.Ive read alot of your posts(which most are fair and straight to the point which i like ,no bs) and I wouldn't want to get on wrong side if you lol.Good to hear other side of things from ladies point of view .

As we are all very polite to each other, using different phrases like treat her with respect , making love, she enjoyed it as much as me, lovely cliches etc etc what is the opinion on the use of the word prostitute. Again are we just polite because we call it escorting but you never hear that word when it gets discussed on social media or the airwaves. It's normally referenced to prostitutes working in apartment, or a prostitute was found working in a hotel. I'm just curious so please don't shoot the messenger

Thank you, I sometimes think that maybe I come across as a contrary biddy here it I'm 9 years in the industry now, I served my time in the beginning with rude, demanding, boundary pushing, unhygienic clients, I really do lo e this job now, I travel the country, meet the nicest people, I'm not rich but I'm also not greedy for money if i get an inkling of a bad vibe it's good luck and goodbye, in my early years I would have horrible clients where my skin is crawling and I'm thinking "I cant wait to get this fcuker out of here"

I would NEVER put myself through that nowadays, not for any money.

Benny, I know that alot of ladies would find the word prostitute offensive and I can understand why,because it can be dehumanising and stigmatising, It reduces a person to just someone to be used for sex.

But I myself have no difficulty with the word prostitute or whore because it is what it is, I am a prostitute.

But I am a prostitute who has managed to make this industry work for ME , I am financially independent and able to pay my Bill's and provide for my family and work to ensure a secure, well educated future for myself and my family.

I work my own hours, I CHOOSE who I see, I have met the most lovely, interesting gentlemen, some clients have become very good friends, I NEVER want or expect gifts but I have been obscenely spoiled by some gentlemen.

Even though I was in a loving long term relationship for many many years, my most amazing, most intense sexual experiences have been with clients.

I'm proud of the life I have created because of this job, I dragged myself out of the depths of stress and worry and endless anxiety over being in debt.

I NEVER want to glamorise this job because it takes balls and street smarts to succeed in it and make it work for ME.

I am a prostitute, not openly due to the consequences this would have for my family but I am unapologetically so, no man will ever dull my shine by calling me a whore or a prostitute because I AM a prostitute, a MAGNIFICENT prostitute who sits in my brand new car and gratefully thinks of the extreme ad ersity I overcame get to the happy place I am in today

[oddball]

I really do lo e this job now

Couldn't even bring yourself to type it could you... Freud would be all over this.

[Harry68]

I think to borrow a Tom Waits number "her phone has been drinking not me".

Although Jenny did mention having something prehistoric phone wise so I might be wrong in wine drinking allegations.

[JennyIrish]

I think to borrow a Tom Waits number "her phone has been drinking not me".

Although Jenny did mention having something prehistoric phone wise so I might be wrong in wine drinking allegations.

I do need a new work phone!!!! It has served me well but it's in bits, I promise it's the phone, I dont drink guys, I live a sober life, great food & great sex are now my only vices and neither in moderation!

[MidlifeCrisis]

As we are all very polite to each other, using different phrases like treat her with respect , making love, she enjoyed it as much as me, lovely cliches etc etc what is the opinion on the use of the word prostitute. Again are we just polite because we call it escorting but you never hear that word when it gets discussed on social media or the airwaves. It's normally referenced to prostitutes working in apartment, or a prostitute was found working in a hotel. I'm just curious so please don't shoot the messenger

The words "escort" and "prostitute" both have multiple meanings and connotations. People who say they are the same thing are choosing to pick one definition of each and say they are equivalent, but I think this is quite wrong.

There will be different opinions as to which is appropriate when, but because of it sometimes being used to describe very low-end and indiscriminate sex work, "prostitute" will offend many here. "Escort" is less judgemental, and many escorts offer an experience which goes way beyond basic sexual services.

If you want to show respect here (and why wouldn't you?) forget the term "prostitute".

[Noregrets]

Thank you, I sometimes think that maybe I come across as a contrary biddy here it I'm 9 years in the industry now, I served my time in the beginning with rude, demanding, boundary pushing, unhygienic clients, I really do lo e this job now, I travel the country, meet the nicest people, I'm not rich but I'm also not greedy for money if i get an inkling of a bad vibe it's good luck and goodbye, in my early years I would have horrible clients where my skin is crawling and I'm thinking "I cant wait to get this fcuker out of here"

I would NEVER put myself through that nowadays, not for any money.

Benny, I know that alot of ladies would find the word prostitute offensive and I can understand why,because it can be dehumanising and stigmatising, It reduces a person to just someone to be used for sex.

But I myself have no difficulty with the word prostitute or whore because it is what it is, I am a prostitute.

But I am a prostitute who has managed to make this industry work for ME , I am financially independent and able to pay my Bill's and provide for my family and work to ensure a secure, well educated future for myself and my family.

I work my own hours, I CHOOSE who I see, I have met the most lovely, interesting gentlemen, some clients have become very good friends, I NEVER want or expect gifts but I have been obscenely spoiled by some gentlemen.

Even though I was in a loving long term relationship for many many years, my most amazing, most intense sexual experiences have been with clients.

I'm proud of the life I have created because of this job, I dragged myself out of the depths of stress and worry and endless anxiety over being in debt.

I NEVER want to glamorise this job because it takes balls and street smarts to succeed in it and make it work for ME.

I am a prostitute, not openly due to the consequences this would have for my family but I am unapologetically so, no man will ever dull my shine by calling me a whore or a prostitute because I AM a prostitute, a MAGNIFICENT prostitute who sits in my brand new car and gratefully thinks of the extreme ad ersity I overcame get to the happy place I am in today

Lovely to read such an honest post.

You have every reason to be proud of your self and your successful business.

[Forceuser]

Here is my next review

"When the door opened my breath was taken away.
We then made love and i could tell she enjoyed it as much
as i did
Treat her with respect lads and she will pay you back in spades
as i left i told her everything was perfect and i was smiling for
the rest of the day

then i complained on the forum later"

[Benny123]

Thank you, I sometimes think that maybe I come across as a contrary biddy here it I'm 9 years in the industry now, I served my time in the beginning with rude, demanding, boundary pushing, unhygienic clients, I really do lo e this job now, I travel the country, meet the nicest people, I'm not rich but I'm also not greedy for money if i get an inkling of a bad vibe it's good luck and goodbye, in my early years I would have horrible clients where my skin is crawling and I'm thinking "I cant wait to get this fcuker out of here"

I would NEVER put myself through that nowadays, not for any money.

Benny, I know that alot of ladies would find the word prostitute offensive and I can understand why,because it can be dehumanising and stigmatising, It reduces a person to just someone to be used for sex.

But I myself have no difficulty with the word prostitute or whore because it is what it is, I am a prostitute.

But I am a prostitute who has managed to make this industry work for ME , I am financially independent and able to pay my Bill's and provide for my family and work to ensure a secure, well educated future for myself and my family.

I work my own hours, I CHOOSE who I see, I have met the most lovely, interesting gentlemen, some clients have become very good friends, I NEVER want or expect gifts but I have been obscenely spoiled by some gentlemen.

Even though I was in a loving long term relationship for many many years, my most amazing, most intense sexual experiences have been with clients.

I'm proud of the life I have created because of this job, I dragged myself out of the depths of stress and worry and endless anxiety over being in debt.

I NEVER want to glamorise this job because it takes balls and street smarts to succeed in it and make it work for ME.

I am a prostitute, not openly due to the consequences this would have for my family but I am unapologetically so, no man will ever dull my shine by calling me a whore or a prostitute because I AM a prostitute, a MAGNIFICENT prostitute who sits in my brand new car and gratefully thinks of the extreme ad ersity I overcame get to the happy place I am in today

There's a lady very happy and comfortable in her own skin. Something that is not an easy thing to achieve.