Beeing late? 👿

[IAmLIAm]

Have to say from trying to leave a negative review stating pretty much what I've put here I'm rather baffled that the review initiating this thread got through considering the push back I've been getting.
Got a bit of push back when I sought to leave a positive review for Lisa too though, seems like you can't be too positive or too negative so this lad got through because he gave 5 stars on 3 of 6 fields, not gloriously positive but not purely negative either. Rather suspect you could give the most scathingly negative and outrageous review in the text as long as you're not too stingy on the stars.

Not sure how exactly I'm supposed to give anything other than the minimum for

• Accuracy of photos
• Satisfaction
• Value for money
• Physical appearance
• Overall experience

on a failed booking.
Could have given something for Location I guess as I did get to watch people strolling around the nearby parkland so at least there was a bit of a view in the carpark.

It might be your review count...

For my first 3 reviews (the 3 shown) I had to show a lot of documentation. As a newbie here I was actually a little uncomfortable with the level of specificity requested (this is not common elsewhere). After talking to 2 of the girls and being assured that there was no worry in giving the requested info, I did so and all 3 reviews went live.

A little over a week later I wrote my 4th review and it went up immediately. Then shortly later was removed (kind of, it still shows up for me) for not meeting the proper timing requirements.

So it might just be you still have to prove your bookings for a bit longer.

[Dieve]

Oddball, if a meeting didn't occur, it can only be zero stars.

[IAmLIAm]

True, but he should still be allowed to submit the proof of booking and leave that review if he so desires. Making / confirming a booking and then ghosting the other party at the agreed upon time is poor form coming from either direction.

[oddball]

Oddball, if a meeting didn't occur, it can only be zero stars.

I would have been fine with it if it were a genuine misunderstanding, where I thought there was a booking but they didn't, that would have been my mistake, but it was clear they'd agreed and that they were then confirming I was on my way 15 minutes before it was due to start means they also understood the booking was in place (or at least I can't think of a good explanation for asking someone you don't expect to see if they are on their way).

Then the complete non-response from them was just damned weird, not even a simple "sorry, previous client has run over time, can you please wait a bit", I've gotten that before and although a little irritating having to wait an extra 5-10 minutes for a 2-3 hour appointment is far from the end of the world. As I said I waited around until 2:19pm before giving up and I was half wondering had the poor girl taken ill or had some sort of emergency but would have expected that by the time I got home surely I would have heard something from one of the two numbers.

Two aspects combined just left me thinking ok, this is some very odd behaviour others may want to be warned about so they set their expectations accordingly.


Anyway, my review is on hold as it seems that two numbers thing is a concern to the mods. Don't get it myself, half wonder if it's a screening thing before letting people know the real number, but regardless not a unique arrangement to this lady.

[Harry68]

I've never been stood up by anyone on this site. A few years ago I was stood up by someone currently advertising on this site via cryptic text who I contacted through another site. Not the first time she had done either I subsequently found out. Frustrating. Embarrassing. Borderline malicious. I was directed towards a busy public location and left dangling.

I know sometimes you can be sent across the street and the lady may have a gander at you from the other side to check you out. If you're visiting an Asian lady that is highly unlikely though.

[Rooney2808]

Most of us try to be early to our appointments but of course things can happen that delay us.
The key is to communicate with the lady what is going on. Explain what is happening and how late you think you will be.
I got delayed going to meet a lady here as I got caught behind a tractor run, god bless rural Ireland! But I explained to the lady I was visiting and she was fine about it.

It's just basic manners to be on time and if you can't be then you need to have some sort of explanation.

[jessicabp]

” key is to communicate“

[Laimo]

” key is to communicate“

Totally agree, if running late always inform the lady. If she can accommodate you, great. If not tough luck