I've never been stood up by anyone on this site. A few years ago I was stood up by someone currently advertising on this site via cryptic text who I contacted through another site. Not the first time she had done either I subsequently found out. Frustrating. Embarrassing. Borderline malicious. I was directed towards a busy public location and left dangling.
I know sometimes you can be sent across the street and the lady may have a gander at you from the other side to check you out. If you're visiting an Asian lady that is highly unlikely though.