That we are all miserable victims, that we need to be “saved”, that clients are dirty old men who “abuse” us . . .
Of course there is a dark side to the industry but I have never experienced it thank God. I love what I do, I pay my own bills work my own hours, I genuinely have the loveliest clients and meet some really interesting people with a really interesting jobs are really interesting life stories are really interesting travels, I have met Clients from all over the world and also some famous faces here in Ireland.
I am a typical contrary Irish woman and I would never ever tolerate disrespect but I honestly rarely encounter it! I can hand on heart say that the gentleman I meet our lovely and so respectful, and it is not just about the physical side at all, the chat the banter and sometimes the counselling session goes a long way for a client.
And as for clients being “dirty old men” I have a long-term client who I am absolutely crazy about, I genuinely get butterflies in my tummy every time his name pops up on my phone, I also have two or three other favourites and it’s never been about looks it’s just been about amazing sexual chemistry and the fact that we get along so well!!
I am definitely the very definition of happy hooker!! I also have no difficulty with the word prostitute or whore, I know some ladies would find this very offensive, but to me it just is what it is, it doesn’t bother me I work on my own terms and I choose who I see, I certainly don’t see any or every person who rings me I’m very strict with my screening process which is probably why I never have any difficulties!