Giving your form name in advance of first meet

[Silvergrey25]

Also to point out the obvious whether you use a forum name or not , whether you use a burner phone or not, regardless of how many reviews you have or don't, a lady doing due diligence has a way of checking . Why not just be straight up, come clean and correct and make it as stress free as possible for both people.

[happydon11]

Also to point out the obvious whether you use a forum name or not , whether you use a burner phone or not, regardless of how many reviews you have or don't, a lady doing due diligence has a way of checking . Why not just be straight up, come clean and correct and make it as stress free as possible for both people.

I agree totally with you. Its easier for the Lady to get a feel for you.What your like...etc. And contact another Lady you've been with if she so wishes.

[MrTony]

Operators and Escorts have my number ..they store it like I would the escorts .
If they don't ask my forum name which they very rarely do , by the time I turn up and meet the escort it appears to me that they know me by past ladies .A lot of girls are friends with each other and for security would talk of who to trust ,on reviews or being kind and respectful .
When I meet for a second time and so on its funny to hear them say my forum name if I've put a review for them before . The accent if it's not Irish is like a scene from Scarface 😂

[Thoreau]

Also to point out the obvious whether you use a forum name or not , whether you use a burner phone or not, regardless of how many reviews you have or don't, a lady doing due diligence has a way of checking . Why not just be straight up, come clean and correct and make it as stress free as possible for both people.

Totally agree and if PM's are invited, even without being responsive, I will contact them and then they also have my profile through reviews and especially the lovely replies I have received over the years!!! Reading the other replies on this thread, I really thought I was out on a limb by my "modus operandi" and interesting to hear from the well established escorts on this forum who couln't give a toss either way - each to their own and guessing they like to be surprised! No doubt I'll be slated for this

[Irelandbeautyyy]

I can only answer for myself but an actual forum member is more likely to get an appointment than just a random mobile number however if you write something here you have to own it and accept how people perceive you

Agree.

I also prefer to read something like iam XYX (username) and feel free to check my given reviews to see iam genuine client.

I don’t think it’s about service. Every lady should be thinking in way if she would like to have returning client or not. Based on this to treat her clients the best how she could. Every returning client is important and no matter if he is giving reviews…

Iam sure i offer always good company to everyone. But of course i can do “epic service” (lol now i just remember for “reasonable rates” - it sounds to me so simmilar. I know next funny collocation. ) how was it mentioned and when? I don’t mind reviews but if i click with someone and i feel there some connection, of course my service is more natural and “epic” It’s logical or not?

[Harry68]

Totally agree and if PM's are invited, even without being responsive, I will contact them and then they also have my profile through reviews and especially the lovely replies I have received over the years!!! Reading the other replies on this thread, I really thought I was out on a limb by my "modus operandi" and interesting to hear from the well established escorts on this forum who couln't give a toss either way - each to their own and guessing they like to be surprised! No doubt I'll be slated for this

Agree 100 per cent.

I think as in life in general it’s better to be up front with people . They may or may not care in this context who you are. If they don’t want to deal with you for whatever reason (“justified” or not) then dignity can be saved for everyone.

I realise it could come across as ego stroking potentially but if someone on either side is setting out with that sort of mindset it’s hard to legislate for.

[bananabox999]

Wellll i had no username here prior to leaving that first review.

I did tell michelle my username from EF however. I see no issue, unless you have something to hide.

[JennyIrish]

Also to point out the obvious whether you use a forum name or not , whether you use a burner phone or not, regardless of how many reviews you have or don't, a lady doing due diligence has a way of checking . Why not just be straight up, come clean and correct and make it as stress free as possible for both people.

Spot on!!

As anyone who has ever come to see me knows I am very chatty and friendly and I like to take a few minutes to break the ice. But I’m quite strict with screening so I never have a problem with the gentleman telling me his first name, although by the time they leave I usually know half their life story!! And it’s just a part of the job that I really like I find it really interesting hearing about different jobs or different life stories or travels that my guests might have been on.

I think it just gets rid of any awkwardness or nervousness to have a chat with the new client when he arrives. I’ve had some well-known faces in this country come to visit me and none of them have had a problem in contacting me from their real WhatsApp (I always pretend that I don’t know who they are and casually ask “so what do you do” And again they have never had a problem in telling me) it’s nice to be trusted, what would I have to gain by gossiping about clients? Possibly being outed myself? No thank you!

[happydon11]

Spot on!!

As anyone who has ever come to see me knows I am very chatty and friendly and I like to take a few minutes to break the ice. But I’m quite strict with screening so I never have a problem with the gentleman telling me his first name, although by the time they leave I usually know half their life story!! And it’s just a part of the job that I really like I find it really interesting hearing about different jobs or different life stories or travels that my guests might have been on.

I think it just gets rid of any awkwardness or nervousness to have a chat with the new client when he arrives. I’ve had some well-known faces in this country come to visit me and none of them have had a problem in contacting me from their real WhatsApp (I always pretend that I don’t know who they are and casually ask “so what do you do” And again they have never had a problem in telling me) it’s nice to be trusted, what would I have to gain by gossiping about clients? Possibly being outed myself? No thank you!

Will love to see you Jenny..we'll have fun and a good chat..my desire for 2024..lol

[Silvergrey25]

Spot on!!

As anyone who has ever come to see me knows I am very chatty and friendly and I like to take a few minutes to break the ice. But I’m quite strict with screening so I never have a problem with the gentleman telling me his first name, although by the time they leave I usually know half their life story!! And it’s just a part of the job that I really like I find it really interesting hearing about different jobs or different life stories or travels that my guests might have been on.

I think it just gets rid of any awkwardness or nervousness to have a chat with the new client when he arrives. I’ve had some well-known faces in this country come to visit me and none of them have had a problem in contacting me from their real WhatsApp (I always pretend that I don’t know who they are and casually ask “so what do you do” And again they have never had a problem in telling me) it’s nice to be trusted, what would I have to gain by gossiping about clients? Possibly being outed myself? No thank you!

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'Thank you fir your response the key intention for me is to build trust, that 's what I'm trying to emphasize. I feel it's the most important aspect for me