Giving your form name in advance of first meet

[Nononsense111]

Ummmmm . . . Yes of course!!

Some guys live & breathe EI drama!!!!

I’ve had guys spent their entire time with me talking fondly about another lady, it dosnt bother me at all I just find it funny!

Or guys who just talk about everyone on the boards here and whatever the latest drama is! It’s my workplace and I wouldn’t know half as much about what’s been going on!!

I’ve heard that last point happen before, really sad carry on to be fair. Really puts ladies in a tough spot. I remember when Rockerman was active on here , I think someone was trying to find out loads about him during meetings with his regular. Strange behaviour

[Thehappypenls]

Less said the better ,more action.

[Barney Rubble]

Ive seen you many times before i ever had a username.There was never any mention of the site,i havent been to longford since you stopped visiting ,i dont think we are missing much there.

Pat's Pan maybe ?

Ah, that's Granard.

[Rooney2808]

As interesting as the members of this forum can be, the idea of meeting a beautiful woman from here and wanting to talk about the people that use an anonymous forum is demented to me!!
I have sometimes given my EI name as a reference for an escort to check me out, it gives her more info to decide if she wants to see me or not. Though I do remember an incident in the past when there was a guy who thought his EI name gave him some sort of special status as he had a large number of reviews and tried to use this against an escort. Asshole!

[TheFalcon]

There is only the one operator who knows who I am,

Id like to keep it that way- keeping an element of mystery.

[MiaX]

I think it depends on the representation. If can come across as arrogant, as if he wanted special treatment in the hopes of a good review.
But if it is done right, in an introductory way, based on what I picked up here and there, they do it to ensure, that the lady feels safe, she can look them up and see for herself. And I think, it is a good thing, that they want us to feel comfortable, I appreciate that.
But it is not a requirement, if you are a good guy, you are a good guy either way 😊

[AmbiValent]

Back in the day I was a more active user on a different forum. I visited a certain escort, had a chat, left and reviewed. Another forum member visited afterwards and asked her about me. She readily passed on what I'd told her (where I'm from, where I work etc) and he then relayed the same back to me. He was benign and harmless so no harm done. This lady would have been considered amongst the creme de la creme of established ladies but alas discretion meant nothing to her.

Since then I'll still have conversations with the ladies but 99 times out of a hundred I'll lie about anything personal. What does it really matter anyway?
As for forum names I suspect you have improved odds of getting a better service if they know you use the forums and are an active reviewer. It makes sense but I still think discretion makes more sense.

[Silvergrey25]

It's a fine balance, I'll always use my forum name, there is the safety aspect to consider when meeting a complete stranger coming through your door for the first time from a ladies perspective. They can at least check you out or are friends with other ladies who have met you Not ironclad I know but that's how I perceive it.

[MidlifeCrisis]

I think it is a bit creepy to volunteer your forum name unless you are asked about it, or you have had forum conversation with the escort.

[Silvergrey25]

I think it is a bit creepy to volunteer your forum name unless you are asked about it, or you have had forum conversation with the escort.

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I understand where you're coming from but its also about a ladies safety for me. We are all here to meet amazing women but we have a duty to respect their safety as well, I don't see it as a big deal at all, it's an internet name at the end of the day but at least you are giving them an opportunity to check you out and make a decision accordingly.