Giving your form name in advance of first meet

[Silvergrey25]

It's a fine balance, I'll always use my forum name, there is the safety aspect to consider when meeting a complete stranger coming through your door for the first time from a ladies perspective. They can at least check you out or are friends with other ladies who have met you Not ironclad I know but that's how I perceive it.

[MidlifeCrisis]

I think it is a bit creepy to volunteer your forum name unless you are asked about it, or you have had forum conversation with the escort.

[Silvergrey25]

I think it is a bit creepy to volunteer your forum name unless you are asked about it, or you have had forum conversation with the escort.

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I understand where you're coming from but its also about a ladies safety for me. We are all here to meet amazing women but we have a duty to respect their safety as well, I don't see it as a big deal at all, it's an internet name at the end of the day but at least you are giving them an opportunity to check you out and make a decision accordingly.

[Silvergrey25]

I used the words fine balance in the previous post for a reason, and to play Devils Advocate. I"ve met this lady the most out of anyone and she is very wise


Thread: References
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I agree with some of the comments, I personally...

I agree with some of the comments, I personally don’t ask or give references as a good client for me can mess about with another girl or the opposite way.
I had a client in Derry, long time ago who...

So essentially this whole place is built on a pyramind of TRUST first and foremost, so the question is how to establish trust with someone who for all the forum posts on a forum is a complete stranger in reality.

[bmw528]

It's a fine balance, I'll always use my forum name, there is the safety aspect to consider when meeting a complete stranger coming through your door for the first time from a ladies perspective. They can at least check you out or are friends with other ladies who have met you Not ironclad I know but that's how I perceive it.

Well, When I contact anyone around here I only have to mention Maynooth Nursing Home and they know just to hang up and run a mile away from the phone.

[Silvergrey25]

Well, When I contact anyone around here I only have to mention Maynooth Nursing Home and they know just to hang up and run a mile away from the phone.

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Sure everybody knows nobody can compete with Matron in her barely there plastic apron , they'd be wasting their time with ya,

[bmw528]

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Sure everybody knows nobody can compete with Matron in her barely there plastic apron , they'd be wasting their time with ya,

I suppose its better than being bored to tears listening to that aul rubbishy music you do be playing.

[Silvergrey25]

I suppose its better than being bored to tears listening to that aul rubbishy music you do be playing.

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Not every one thinks ska is the ultimate evolution of music, Matron likes my tunes better than yours, 100% she'd never lie to me.

[bmw528]

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Not every one thinks ska is the ultimate evolution of music, Matron likes my tunes better than yours, 100% she'd never lie to me.

Well she told me she thought ye were a bit of a Cheeky Fuck giving yer forum name to her when ye were trying to visit.

[Silvergrey25]

Well she told me she thought ye were a bit of a Cheeky Fuck giving yer forum name to her when ye were trying to visit.

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She told me yer balls looked like they'd been in a car accident.