I’m wondering what the protocol is for giving or not giving your forum name to someone you might be thinking about seeing who is active on the forums? They haven’t asked. I suppose if you have a great time and say so everyone is happy. If you don’t various levels of akwardness are a possibility. Also there is the possibility as In perceptions coming from interactions online that neither of you are what they expected built on preconceptions they may have about you or vice versa.