Question for sex workers [female, male & trans]

[Benny123]

Your one & only post, are you a journalist, a student . . .???

A gobshite??

[TheFalcon]

Ive known two ladies pretty well- does that qualify me to give an answer- dont know

if I offer an answer theyd probably prefer I give a negative one,

so,

Some long days spent waiting for the phone to ring and then would they be a genuine caller

[WeeJimmy]

Several ladies have said we men are a bunch of cheating basterds and I think deep inside we all will cheat giving the chance. They dont trust us. Like if a beautiful stunning woman like Arlene Foster walks into a room in west belfast full of happily married men do you really think if she started to strip off and say, go on guys, give it to me that the guys would say Ulster says No, I'm married and very happy thank you very much, of course not, any sane man would be in there straight away
A man has needs and the lady got to understand we need lots of sex and it's no big deal, it's only sex....

[anais-001]

Hello

I'm just wondering if you could tell the world one thing about sex work, what would it be?

It could be anything.

Do people think you make much more money than you do in reality? Has it affected your perception of the opposite sex? If so, for better or worse? Even though you're with people, does it get lonely sometimes?

There's lots of examples but if the wider world could only know one thing about your life as a sex worker, what would you like it to be?

Many thanks!

One word...Discovery

Ok through this job I think I had discovered myself in lots of ways I become more mature ,wise , balanced and patient but i dont know if was just because of the job or if it was the normal process of age maturity also. I think this job have gave me the chance to meet so many wonderful people and I like to think I have learned something new from each one in part .
This job it may sound and look just easy and bright from outside but like any jobs in this word may have not he's really bright sides; anyway i still prefer to look at the positive sides so i think this job has giving me the opportunity to learn and to evaluate people and find better ways to communicate and interact .
Financially yes this job offers fantastic opportunities but also at the end of month after the bills actually is quite expensive... also if analize the actual time of work ...it can be shocking...ok as a big plus for me ...I really enjoy what I do so...things get easier
Perception about the opposite gender...yes had been changed . I learned cause men are lots of times perceived as these though creatures with not a sensitive side of character...which is wrong we are all humans and emotions and feelings are not differentiate by gender.
About loneliness ...hmm this is a hard part yes this job can be quite lonely...but I also discovered lots of true friends ...I don't really know what to say about it