Walk or Stay...Is it Acceptable ?

[oddball]

Pretty new to all this, and to be honest pretty sure I would not have the backbone to bail and would instead just not actually get up to much with them and not be a repeat customer, unless we somehow click. But then for me doing anything more than kissing and cuddling rather hinges on clicking with them even if they were indeed the most attractive woman in the world, just how my brain works.

In spite of a short list of those I've visited so far I've seen the listed favourite not offered (kissing, and I don't even mean french kissing which was also listed, pretty certain my hygiene was good and kind of just felt the girl did not like me and I don't feel entitled to anything, so didn't push the matter).

I've seen where profile details don't match the person.

Funniest though was where I rang the "girl" and a man's voice answered, not a John Wayne or Barry White man's voice but a Ru Paul man's voice, and let's just say suddenly a few elements of the profile made a lot more sense... Most thankfully have either TV/TS in their name. No judgement from me, just not my thing.

Did also have one outcall encounter with a girl not from this site who showed up stinking of cigarettes and spent the whole time on her phone via wireless earphones and everytime she spoke to me she was shouting (probably because of the earphones) making me worry the neighbours could hear everything.
I was not up for anything with her being like that so, after I'd turned down sex and then turned down a bj (yes, I know I'm weird, hence the user name), she bailed claiming to have a last minute party she had to go to and that she'd be back to look after me later. Kind of glad to see the back of her but at the same time feel the pay in full up front system has it's faults (had booked 2 hours she left after ~20 minutes). Should probably have insisted she unplug from her phone, keep her voice down, and use some of my mouthwash but again don't like confrontation about this sort of stuff.



As for them hiding behind the door given the attire they answer in I don't blame them from not wanting to give the neighbourhood a show.

[InsidiousCid]

It should be acceptable no matter what, goes without saying.

But some advertisers can be quite objectionable when a client leaves without service (or rather, without the provider having received their contribution).

I'm 99% certain when one walks out of an appointment no service no pay, some providers may go to great lengths to smear their name as a client by whatever means necessary, as much as possible.

I was also with this little lunatic one time, a real nut job, who literally breathed a deep sigh of relief when I said, "mmmm, what the hell, your rates are so low I might as well give it a try".

In retrospect, I think she was so imbalanced she was prepared to do something grievous unless I made the financial offering......... thus the sigh of relief.

So yeah, I really just came to re-emphasize the points I made in this thread:

https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...ers-in-Ireland

In relation to this topic there should be just as much, if not more political emphasis on provider oversight (i.e. public/client safety), as there are checks and balances on the potential for exploitation of them.

[TonyB]

I have and would walk away if pissed off by any of Mr Tony's complaints.
I am not always pissed off by extras but they are annoying. It's like me haggling about the escorts fee, I'm sure they don't like it, so why should I put up with similar crap.

The shower doesn't interest be because I go there clean and I have a shower at home but I appreciate some may want to wash before going home.

I have only ever walk out after an escort was annoying me and also by the bait and switch some pull.

[Scrumhalf9]

A lot to be said for the regulars.

[davidob555]

I have walked out in the past, two separate occasions.

The person that opened the door was not the person in the ad, I explained to them that I was leaving and why, they understood.

The second one I am less proud of, it was the person in the ad, photos were heavily doctored to be fair, I told her I had to go back to the car for my wallet , Text her stairwell on my way out to say I was nervous and would not be back

[MikeJ36]

I’ve walked before because of a combination of no’s 1 & 2.

Didn’t go into detail with her as to my reasons at the time - I had an app on my phone that faked a call so I used that and pretended it was an emergency. Softened the blow a bit… I think.

It was just that one time - I wouldn’t make a habit of it (although those reasons - particularly no. 1 are kinda deal breakers).

[hitman76]

For me I want to see either verified photos or video.
1. This is a red flag on the list and a no go.
2. I want all the details before hand and price, so I don't fuck around, I know what I want and is it available and if not it's a no go.
3. Any talk of extras is a deal breaker and I don't need to hear the word extra, that's a red flag and a make on a review.
4. Is a no way gonna happen, see 1.
5. I always shower before and so its not a big deal, I always plan ahead.

[TonyStark]

I have never walked because I genuinely don't like confrontation although there may have been one or two times I could've. Turns out they were nice ladies who put on a good service even if the pics where a bit old/deceiving.

With ai and airbrushing we may just have to stick with what we know as gonna be a lot of catfishing going on with the tech now.

[rubber94]

Hey Tony

I had an experience recently, had booked for 1hr. Everything through texts. Got there and lady was pretty and quite like her photos but the service was poor I could just sense it. We started but as soon as it began I knew it was gonna be poor. I made my excuses and left. The lady was surprised I just left. Did not ask about refund or anything put it down to a life lesson

Hey All ,
Do you think it's acceptable for a client to walk away from an escorts room when the client arrives because:

1.The escort looks nothing at all like their verified photos .
2.They were talking about favourites over the phone and then escort denied them once client got there .
3.Extra charges been added even though not mentioned on the call .
4. Escort knows she is not the girl in the photos and demands client stays for a discounted price.
5.No shower allowed even though its on the profile.

There are a few stories going around of clients really been hard done by with their hard earned cash.....sometimes by the time the client arrives its all what's in the trousers now that's doing the thinking and talking at that stage.

[MidlifeCrisis]

But i still don’t get extras which are mentioned all the time. Iam trying really hard to imagine how is it working… in first minute to discuss something like where you will finish and for how much. Eh. Sometimes i feel like iam in bad business with my nature.

Totally agree. A negotiation about extras would be a complete mood killer for me - not the sort of experience I am after at all.

I don't even like the idea of asking a girl to commit to what she will do ahead of time. The idea that they would go ahead with something, feeling uncomfortable, because they had agreed to makes me cringe.