Walk or Stay...Is it Acceptable ?

[Lighthearted2022]

Totally agree. A negotiation about extras would be a complete mood killer for me - not the sort of experience I am after at all.

I don't even like the idea of asking a girl to commit to what she will do ahead of time. The idea that they would go ahead with something, feeling uncomfortable, because they had agreed to makes me cringe.

Exactly.....it's an illusion many that many of us are after - discussion of extras, favourites, etc just destroy that.

I personally went with girls who had favourites that I seek, but if not all were forthcoming for whatever reason, then so be it - not going to cause tension by bringing it up. Just go with the flow. I've been lucky (or maybe just picking the right girls) in that only once or twice have I got 'not that baby', but done in a gentle way that kept things moving along. If anything it was more real!!

[Lighthearted2022]

But i still don’t get extras which are mentioned all the time. Iam trying really hard to imagine how is it working… in first minute to discuss something like where you will finish and for how much. Eh. Sometimes i feel like iam in bad business with my nature..

100% - how does the conversation go?

"Ok, so we've agreed standard GFE with X, Y, and Z extras, for xx€, shake hands, sign here, here, and here. Right you've 30 minutes ........starting ........now - shower is that way, why aren't you relaxed baby?"


Not for me

[TommyH123]

Yeah, I’ve been lucky over the years, a few great regs who never disappointed but once or twice in the past I should have walked, on one occasion I just called it 10 mins in, that was a case of total disinterest on the escorts part but generally I tend to stick it out on the basis that a bad meet is at least 50% my fault in that I made a bad choice.

Extras on arrival would never be an issue for me as I just carry the fee and no more, I don’t like handing the fee once I arrive, it’s placed in open view and doesn’t enter my head after that, couldn’t imagine anything worse than a price haggle.

[oddball]

100% - how does the conversation go?

"Ok, so we've agreed standard GFE with X, Y, and Z extras, for xx€, shake hands, sign here, here, and here. Right you've 30 minutes ........starting ........now - shower is that way, why aren't you relaxed baby?"


Not for me

What?!? Have you never completed a consent form before getting down to business?!!?

[Harry68]

Totally agree. A negotiation about extras would be a complete mood killer for me - not the sort of experience I am after at all.

I don't even like the idea of asking a girl to commit to what she will do ahead of time. The idea that they would go ahead with something, feeling uncomfortable, because they had agreed to makes me cringe.

Agree 100 per cent. My only advance “negotiation” for a first time visit is if FK is available. After that if anything else brought up by the lady I will say yay or nay. Repeat visits are generally more relaxed and things tend to happen more organically.

The whole GFE illusion is fairly easy to shatter. I don’t ever remember back in my gf days ever setting out a schedule for anything to happen. My requirements are very much on the vanilla side with an extra scoop of vanilla on top though so may not suit everyone.

[MiaX]

Lego anyone?

[Harry68]

I’m going to have to get Google out for some of those - “Alaskan Pipeline” 🙈? It just doesn’t sound good.

[TommyH123]

Agree 100 per cent. My only advance “negotiation” for a first time visit is if FK is available. After that if anything else brought up by the lady I will say yay or nay. Repeat visits are generally more relaxed and things tend to happen more organically.

The whole GFE illusion is fairly easy to shatter. I don’t ever remember back in my gf days ever setting out a schedule for anything to happen. My requirements are very much on the vanilla side with an extra scoop of vanilla on top though so may not suit everyone.

i just go with the flow once fk and owo are on the menu, can't have a gfe meet without both, I'm happy enough to see what happens from that point but i do like a surprise

[TommyH123]

Lego anyone?

[Lighthearted2022]

What?!? Have you never completed a consent form before getting down to business?!!?

Do you mean the blue form XF-23C or the red one VB-556Y - I always them mixed up.