Discretion and Hygiene

[Eroticfunlover]

Doesn't sound like 100% to me!?



Maybe your observations were correct
Maybe not!!

but you paint a dark picture one of which I'm not familiar with in my personal experiences

I believe my personal hygiene is at the highest end of the scale and I've absolutely no doubt I would detect anything similar to what you've described when meeting a girl

Without a review and or a right of reply for the girl in question it leaves your OP open to speculation as to who you're referring to

This type of generalisation can tare girls who pride themselves on how they present themselves with the same brush

On that basis I'm not overly happy with your thread

I'm sure you have also had some positive experiences?

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You are right. I have had some very positive experiences down through the years.
I made the original post because discretion is vital to me for a reason I can't disclose and also my own hygiene is impeccable so I would expect the same when meeting a girl. I posted because I thought it would it would be helpful to fellow punters who hold these standards as high as I do but on reflection it may not have been my best decision ever
I probably should not have went ahead with the meet but I had some very pleasant memories of a previous encounter.
As for your comment on not being overly happy with my thread that is of absolutely no significance to me.
After all this is a Forum

[AmorInfinito8]

You are right. I have had some very positive experiences down through the years.
I made the original post because discretion is vital to me for a reason I can't disclose and also my own hygiene is impeccable so I would expect the same when meeting a girl. I posted because I thought it would it would be helpful to fellow punters who hold these standards as high as I do but on reflection it may not have been my best decision ever
I probably should not have went ahead with the meet but I had some very pleasant memories of a previous encounter.
As for your comment on not being overly happy with my thread that is of absolutely no significance to me.
After all this is a Forum

I can't really see how your OP would or could be helpful to anyone without further details!?

There's no general location, time frame or goes without saying a review
to identify this girl or give her a right of reply

This alleged incident could have happened at any point of the compass with any girl
based on the lack of detail in your post
and I believe it only serves to throw shadow on girls in general

I can fully understand your frustration
if what you suspect turned out to be true but you did go ahead with the meeting,
despite your uncorroborated suspicions of this other guy leaving the apartment block!?

Yeah the girl had a smoke before you arrived as you've stated but does it not sound more logical that's why she asked you to wait a few minutes!?

Did she advertise as a smoker?
If not then yes on that basis at least you were deceived

As for my previous post being of any significance to you
well that's for you to decide

I was merely stating my opinion
based on what you have posted

Little advice which I'm sure you will decide is insignificant

focus on the positives in life
take the negatives as a learning curve then simply forget them

I hope you're future experiences are joyful and not tarnished by suspicions that all girls are like this

In my experience girls take pride in their hygiene and in how they present themselves especially girls who accept reviews

[BarryD]

I recently visited a girl in Cork. I arrived at her apartment at the appointed time. About 5 minutes later I got a text "Few minutes". 2 minutes later there is a guy leaving the building and I get a text "Go at the door". Now the guy is sitting in his car on the phone and is clearly watching me enter the building.

Firstly it is mentioned in her reviews that she has a lovely discreet apartment but that's no good if the girl is not discreet at all. Surely she should allow a few minutes between clients for discretion purposes.
Second point....there was no time for her to attend to her personal hygiene with a turnaround that quick. In fact she took the 2 minutes it took me to get to the apartment to have a cigarette because I could smell it on her. With all that in mind there were some things that I wasn't interested in doing then which took from the enjoyment of the meeting .
Anyway I'm not going to name names here but if any Cork lads want the heads up feel free to PM me because I think if girls are not discreet it puts our anonymity at risk

Point taken. That is why I didn't mention a name. I only joined the forum recently because I retired from full time work. I've been doing this on and off for many years and believe me that guy was a punter. Could be spotted a mile away.

read this and was thinking quotes:
"take a good look at yourself before you criticize another, for what you see wrong in them is a lesson for you."
"You must take responsibility for your own choices and actions , everyone is responsible for their own."

let me get this one straight ... guy exits apt. entry just before your punt, you were certain he was another client, sits into his car on the phone and is clearly watching you enter the building but you decide to go ahead with the punt.

then come on a public forum, create a report of the incident for all to see, critique the girl for not being hygienic, having no discretion and putting your anonymity at risk
and if anyone want a heads up send a PM!!

if you value hygiene, discretion and/or anonymity - you would and should have walked away. not to even mention the forum report.

[Eroticfunlover]

read this and was thinking quotes:
"take a good look at yourself before you criticize another, for what you see wrong in them is a lesson for you."
"You must take responsibility for your own choices and actions , everyone is responsible for their own."

let me get this one straight ... guy exits apt. entry just before your punt, you were certain he was another client, sits into his car on the phone and is clearly watching you enter the building but you decide to go ahead with the punt.

then come on a public forum, create a report of the incident for all to see, critique the girl for not being hygienic, having no discretion and putting your anonymity at risk
and if anyone want a heads up send a PM!!

if you value hygiene, discretion and/or anonymity - you would and should have walked away. not to even mention the forum report.

As I have stated here already making the original post was probably not my wisest decision but I do defend my intentions.
I also agree that I should not have gone ahead with the meet but I continued on the fond memory of a past experience

[IrishSarahBarra]

Yes I'm 100% certain. And after reading some of the PMs I received I'm 1000% certain

Pms about the same girl?

[Eroticfunlover]

Pms about the same girl?

Yes. Several guys seemed to know automatically who I referred to without any prompting

[AmorInfinito8]

Pms about the same girl?

Yes. Several guys seemed to know automatically who I referred to without any prompting

950 Escorts spread across the whole of Ireland 🤔

What a guess!!

did you suggest to them that they should buy a lottery ticket?

[IrishSarahBarra]

Yes. Several guys seemed to know automatically who I referred to without any prompting

Hehe, yes, that is what I was getting at 😋 Fair enough.

Well lookit, isn't it great there's only the one.

[Eroticfunlover]

[QUOTE=AmorInfinito8;4326053]950 Escorts spread across the whole of Ireland 🤔

What a guess!!

did you suggest to them that they should buy a lottery ticket?[/QUOT

Just stating the facts. Obviously there is a pattern that some guys recognised

[AngelsFan]

Anyone who has been a punter for a while can spot another punter when he sees them.
The opening post has the ring of truth about it imo.