Female orgasm?

[mascol]

Ah my first reaction was just fake it girl, this whole thing is kinda fake- an illusion, pretend. So why not fake orgasms?
Maybe the little genital spams would be nearly impossible to fake but if you got the guy in a choke hold with your thighs or threw him against the far wall with your release, well then he wouldn't notice.

The pressure thing sounds unreasonable to me, it's not up to you to soothe their insecurities, to take the pressure they have on themselves and apply it to you??? What???

I think I posted a while back that I have been told that it has as much to do with what is going on between a girls ears than her legs, so applying pressure mentally and genitally is sort of counterintuitive.

So I'm going with your last option, Nothing.... well stick this track on repeat as the tryers each take their shot at the title.

[Thehappypenls]

Great post ,
Peraonally i dont really care if the lady has an orgasm ,yes of course it is a great if they do and it does give the ego abit of a boost that goes without saying but as long as i feel a good energy and the girl is giving me her full attention om a happy camper.
Now licking for 2.5 hours well thats just abit mad to be honest ,frodo left the shire and got half to destroying the ring in that lenght.Ive just pictured smeggle between your legs MY Precious.

I think the fact you have thought so much about this speaks for itself and how much you think of your clients.We pay for you to pleasure but sometimes the customer isnt always right.

[IrishSarahBarra]

People who ask me to cum or who are focused on the cum are the people who are less likely to ever see me cum. It's the male equivalent of being mechanical and trying to get me out the door. Don't mention it, focus on what you're enjoying, taking, sensing, what's going on in your imagination, everything else but me cumming, and let me do the same, then I might cum.

[FetishCherry]

It's been on my mind lately due to a few occasions when the clients were focusing on my orgasm instead of theirs.

I was also inspired by a recent thread where clients were sharing their issues when it's hard for them to culminate.

I wanted to know your opinion on female orgasm within the context of escorts.

The first guy specifically asked me not to fake it, and wanted to watch me wank. It took me a while to get there, and I assumed we would cum together, but he asked me to do it again. The pressure made it even harder of course, so at one point I told him I don't think I can do it. He really wanted it, and I eventually got over the line, which got him there too. I wasn't happy about it though obviously, I felt drained.

The second guy only told me he wished I could cum after a long licking session, so I tried to finish myself fast, but I couldn't, and the time was up. I felt like I did a bad job for not fulfilling his request, but he assured me that I didn't.

The third guy also did a long licking before telling me that he was hoping for results from that, but instead of guilty wanking, this time I tried to be cool and made a joke which didn't land well.

The fourth guy downright cumshamed me when he thought his licking was a waste of time.
- I'm not doing it right, am I?
- What do you mean? 😊
- Well, you haven't cum.
- Oh, I can't 😊😊
- There's no such thing, every woman can cum.

So my question is, what is the right move?

■ Just fake it, babe. It's part of the job. This whole world is an escape from reality. Don't overthink it. Don't feel guilty about it.
■ Put it in your advertisement that you are cumdisabled to prevent misleading these fine purebred gentlemen who put their heart in pleasuring you!!!
■ Ask during booking if they want female orgasm, like a bookable favourite.
■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum if you're in the mood.
■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum regardless of whether you're in the mood.
■ Compulsively cum with every client. Take your job seriously, girl. All these awards, and no cum? Ridiculous. Make mama proud. Cum!
■ Nothing, they gotta be mature enough to understand that your inability to cum has nothing to do with their technique.

P.s.: The guy who booked me for 3 hours and ate pussy for 2.5 hours didn't care whether I came or not.
This is why whenever guys eat my pussy, I assume they like the sensation of doing it, my orgasm is just cherry on top.
I like the sensation too, and I always make sure I show it. I just think that machines are better for my clit than people. That's all.

Yep, any woman can cum with the right man, in the right moment .

I don't want to fake it so if will happen will happen if will not happen (more likely) will not happen. Putting pressure on me will not improve anything but the opposite will piss me off. Remember those girls who keep telling u ''cum baby, cum'' . Now let's concentrate on u darling

[FetishCherry]

Yep, any woman can cum with the right man, in the right moment .

I don't want to fake it so if will happen will happen if will not happen (more likely) will not happen. Putting pressure on me will not improve anything but the opposite will piss me off. Remember those girls who keep telling u ''cum baby, cum'' . Now let's concentrate on u darling

To be honest, a guy shouldn't feel the need to ensure my orgasm because once I'm satisfied, I'm satisfied. At that point, I transition from being an escort to just being myself. And when I'm myself, after I climax, I lose all interest in further intimacy. The thrill is completely gone for me. So, after I reach orgasm, don't touch me, or even better, just get dressed and leave. Your job is done! ��

[MrTony]

Expect the unexpected .Its what I've learned...A good sesh is when both parties are totally lost in all around them ...
I remember years ago meeting a lady in Santry. Never met before but I knew straight away that her Time of her Month (lol)was right where she wanted me ...It was the first time I said to myself that wasn't a fake . Sometimes it's not the mans big ego that has any say, if the lady wants it she'll get it .I even was told once, to slow my ego up after a crazy orgasm by the escort that its the older average looking man can do more for her than the muscle man in his prime. Kinda made me look in the mirror and accept myself 😂😂

Don't take it all too personal. You do your job well , Be proud of your reviews and awards and keep enjoying your experiences.

We only die once but we live every day..Keep Living the Dream

[FredBiscuits]

A guy can finish himself with his hand in about a minute if he wants to, cos he knows exactly how, where and when to stroke and apply pressure. I imagine it's the same for you ladies.

I had a girlfriend, when in college, who use to enjoy what can only be described as competitive masturbation, when she was horny by didn't think she had the time for sex.

She would literally come into the room, and say something like "wank race" (or similar) and see who could cum first. Sometime it would progress to sex, but normally wouldn't, either way both of us would usually finish, and an even split on who would "win the race". Often one person finishing would set the other off.

I have to say it was quite enjoyable, and I still enjoy ladies who are comfortable enough to masturbate in front of me.

[Dieve]

I had a girlfriend, when in college, who use to enjoy what can only be described as competitive masturbation, when she was horny by didn't think she had the time for sex.

She would literally come into the room, and say something like "wank race" (or similar) and see who could cum first. Sometime it would progress to sex, but normally wouldn't, either way both of us would usually finish, and an even split on who would "win the race". Often one person finishing would set the other off.

I have to say it was quite enjoyable, and I still enjoy ladies who are comfortable enough to masturbate in front of me.

I wish friendship looked like this 🫠

[FredBiscuits]

I wish friendship looked like this ��

That emoji is fitting for what both of us looked like after a wank race.

[Madgar]

I wanted to know your opinion on female orgasm within the context of escorts.

Oh boy, I have strong feelings on this as of recent...

I don't have the ego to think that I can get any/every woman off easily. I know I am not the greatest and not every woman I am with will get off with the things I might like, and there are women out there who can get off easily, or who can only get off specific ways (plenty of women cant get off via penetration). When it comes to an escort, what matters to me is I am not making them hate the time with me. If I want them to cum but I am putting pressure on them to do that, then I am a bad client. If they can feel good/enjoy themselves, thats the win. So I care if shes having fun, but I am under no illusion I can guarantee she will cum.

The only time I care in terms of what they end up doing is when its so over the top... Don't pull an "exorcist" on me, I know I am not a sex god... My ego isn't that fragile.