Female orgasm?

[Forceuser]

Personally,its great if the escort orgasms but i'm happy enough if she gets even
slightly in the mood
makes the whole meeting a much better affair

[DamoEI]

Taxi driver: Where to, mate?

Client: I'm gonna take you on the most amazing scenic route you've ever seen!

Taxi driver: I dunno about that mate, I've seen a LOT of scenery in my time...

Client: What about that castle over there?

Taxi driver: Yeah, seen it before, looks nice.

Client: Oh yeah, well what about this amazing parkland?!

Taxi driver: Been here before, but yeah, lovely.

Client: Why are you not more excited about my special route?! I DEMAND YOU SAY IT'S THE BEST YOU'VE EVER BEEN ON!!!

Taxi driver: Ugh, time for a forum post...

[sibbald]

A lot of guys really don't get it..
It's all nothing to take personally.
She's not your girlfriend.
She's not that into you most of the time and she's not in the mood (physically or mentally) most of the time.
A lot of girls will need to use Lidocaine (numbing) for their pussy/nipples in order to entertain multiple clients or for guys who aren't been careful or considerate enough.
Ever noticed your lips/tongue been numb after a session, did you not realise what that was??

You could spending hours eating her out all to no avail. Occasionally you might be dealing with a woman who's in the mood, who's attracted to you and is sufficiently relaxed to get off but this is not common, like I said it's nothing personal.

Here's some context. The porn actress Belle Claire in an interview admitted that during a decade long career, hundreds of guys/gals, perhaps a thousand scenes she came once...

[Lighthearted2022]

I can't see how demanding someone to 'perform' makes the experience better for either party.

One of my favourite things to do is spoon while using my fingers on her. It's a great feeling of intimacy for me and if I'm lucky enough that she's enjoying it enough to cum, the little shudders are very sexy. However, I've always assumed that if she does 'cum', she's more than likely faking it - or imagined herself with someone else if she happened to be in the mood. I also imagine that she may not be entirely relaxed if we haven't met very often - not conducive to orgasms.

But its mainly for me (I'm happy that she was comfortable enough to agree to my request), speeds up the main event, and hopefully she finds it somewhat pleasurable!

I know guys are generally delusional but we should know that for most of these girls, we're just another punter to get in and out while she thinks about the washing, or what to make for dinner.

[Noregrets]

It's been on my mind lately due to a few occasions when the clients were focusing on my orgasm instead of theirs.

I was also inspired by a recent thread where clients were sharing their issues when it's hard for them to culminate.

I wanted to know your opinion on female orgasm within the context of escorts.

The first guy specifically asked me not to fake it, and wanted to watch me wank. It took me a while to get there, and I assumed we would cum together, but he asked me to do it again. The pressure made it even harder of course, so at one point I told him I don't think I can do it. He really wanted it, and I eventually got over the line, which got him there too. I wasn't happy about it though obviously, I felt drained.

The second guy only told me he wished I could cum after a long licking session, so I tried to finish myself fast, but I couldn't, and the time was up. I felt like I did a bad job for not fulfilling his request, but he assured me that I didn't.

The third guy also did a long licking before telling me that he was hoping for results from that, but instead of guilty wanking, this time I tried to be cool and made a joke which didn't land well.

The fourth guy downright cumshamed me when he thought his licking was a waste of time.
- I'm not doing it right, am I?
- What do you mean? 😊
- Well, you haven't cum.
- Oh, I can't 😊😊
- There's no such thing, every woman can cum.

So my question is, what is the right move?

■ Just fake it, babe. It's part of the job. This whole world is an escape from reality. Don't overthink it. Don't feel guilty about it.
■ Put it in your advertisement that you are cumdisabled to prevent misleading these fine purebred gentlemen who put their heart in pleasuring you!!!
■ Ask during booking if they want female orgasm, like a bookable favourite.
■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum if you're in the mood.
■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum regardless of whether you're in the mood.
■ Compulsively cum with every client. Take your job seriously, girl. All these awards, and no cum? Ridiculous. Make mama proud. Cum!
■ Nothing, they gotta be mature enough to understand that your inability to cum has nothing to do with their technique.

P.s.: The guy who booked me for 3 hours and ate pussy for 2.5 hours didn't care whether I came or not.
This is why whenever guys eat my pussy, I assume they like the sensation of doing it, my orgasm is just cherry on top.
I like the sensation too, and I always make sure I show it. I just think that machines are better for my clit than people. That's all.

Wow wow wow


For a girl to let me go down on her I am always grateful

Yes I want to make her cum but if I don't it's not her fault

Once she's naturally very wet and enjoying it that's perfect.

If she's not enjoying it STOP
Don't tolerate them

[happydon11]

For me the best part of sex is trying to satisfy a woman..it doesn't always happen..but the fun is trying and enjoying her.

[IAmLIAm]

I'm just going to share how much of a dork I am here:

I smile stupidly to myself whenever I notice this...



...or this

[Benny123]

I just let the appointment flow. I hope to enjoy it and I hope she enjoys it. I don't expect her to cum so there's no pressure and I hate the faking of it. I have no idea what kind of a day or week she is having so as long as we have a mutually enjoyable session that's fine with me.

[Launcelot]

Expecting someone to have an orgasm is a big ask.

No matter how much one enjoys one’s job, or vocation/hobby, if you make anyone expect or set the bar then the opposite will happen.

If one is relaxed and the other person is relaxed then what happens, happens. The more relaxed you are, the more likely they will be relaxed. The less you expect, the better it gets

No pressure. Relax and just go with the flow and what happens, happens.

[IAmLIAm]

50/50 she's entertained or mad at me for making light of the topic...