Is this weird or common

[ford pefect]

A few times when I couldnt finish I thought about my wife banging someone else, a bit weird but it did the trick

[Andyamcc]

A few times when I couldnt finish I thought about my wife banging someone else, a bit weird but it did the trick

I did the same thing thinking about my ex with someone else. Very strange but it worked

[FredBiscuits]

A few times when I couldnt finish I thought about my wife banging someone else, a bit weird but it did the trick

So would the wifeless amongst us have to think of your wife banging someone else for this to work?

[IAmLIAm]

So would the wifeless amongst us have to think of your wife banging someone else for this to work?

I think think this calls for a field study. Report back your findings.

[TonyB]

I'm exactly the same.

Some girls I cum quickly and some I just can't cum.

I often think of someone else.

Not being able to cum is a lot more common since I gave up drinking.

[morelovin]

Have to say, I have met a small number of escorts I find very attractive and I just try to enjoy their company both physically and emotionally. I need that blend and for me that works. If I encountered the struggles here I just wouldn’t bother anymore. I’d find something else to do. Maybe don’t focus on the performance so much but just try have a mutual nice time. If it’s not happening just lie down and shoot the breeze with them and have a laugh .

[thicklanger]

Find it very hard (pardon the pun) in most cases not to shoot my load instantly, which has lead to the odd surprise mouthful