How can an "average guy" get a beautiful wife

[Corsasport]

I think it's a classic case of "fake it til you make it".

The moment he stops giving a shit about his imperfections and just goes straight in approaching those hot women who he thinks he's too boring for by acting confident yet natural, his chances of eventually landing one will dramatically increase. He's gotta get used to a shitload of rejection of course, not brood on those who don't deserve him.

No pain, no gain. No risk, no win.

Reminds me of my first signature, a Carrie Fisher quote.

"Stay afraid, but do it anyway.
What’s important is the action.
You don’t have to wait to be confident.
Just do it, and eventually the confidence will follow."

I disagree with people calling him shallow, especially because he also mentioned good conversational skills as requirement. I rather consider those who claim looks don't matter hypocrites. If you're already pretty with a huge pool of pretty partners to choose from, of course it's not an issue for you, you never had to talk about it, because it comes easy, but the moment someone mentions they want someone pretty, boo-hoo, shallow?

I also want someone pretty, interesting, smart, funny, caring... if I consider that person better than me in any way, then I hope they will accept me the way I am, and happy to watch me grow.

I like the Carrie fisher quote

[TheFalcon]

Thank you to everyone for all the replies-

I was thinking an audience of straight talking Irish lads and beautiful women would generate some insightful replies,

so that was great- in fairness great responses,

Dieve's reply I found especially interesting ,

I suppose at the end of the day it is good to talk.

[Noregrets]

Maybe his shortcomings would be less obvious with a substantial lotto win

Love this comment

[Noregrets]

Give me a girl that makes my heart flutter
That is kind generous and humble
A girl who respects others and can hold a serious conversation.

[64west]

The way I look at this is you have to… I mean, “He” will have to bring something to the relationship.

A woman who looks perfect that you personally consider a 10, may have good charisma and be highly confident but she seeks equally value in a partner (if you were born with natural beauty, good for you u lucky cunt, I’m happy for ya)😁
There’s not much you can do when a 10 seeks an equal partner, But….

Another woman that looks perfect to you. Andyou also consider to be a beautiful 10 but she may have some minor insecurities and things like this and just feels more comfortable with herself when she is with a man who she feels secure with (she is a 10 and he may be a 5 or 6, whatever that means. But she choose him for other reasons)

You can find a wife that’s a “10” but you have to have something the works for you to make your 5 looks and 10 humour or muscles or personality to make your total an 8 (again, whatever all that means). Plenty of fish out there to rub fins,? Or something like that.?

And financial wealth is redundant because those that build wealth generally have strong drive, ambition, personality good for building relationships.



Sorry for rambling, I envy those who get their point out in 2 sentences.

[TonyB]

You'd want to be out of your mind to want a wife.
From what I've heard wives tend to be against escorts.
Ridiculous and unacceptable

[AmorInfinito8]

You'd want to be out of your mind to want a wife.
From what I've heard wives tend to be against escorts.
Ridiculous and unacceptable

[AmorInfinito8]

I Believe Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder!!

But I've often wondered what this world would be like if Humanity had evolved Blind!?

If the only light that could be comprehended came from within!!

It's not a Great stretch of the imagination!

Enter a Totally darkened room then close your eyes!!

Clasp your palms tightly over your eyes!!

You will always see light!!
No matter the darkest of darkness you will always see light!!

Yes minute particles of measure
but each a millennia in time

[WeeJimmy]

I dont believe so, not in todays world unless she's partially sighted or got mental issues. Even if youre rich, I don't believe the relationship would have legs for long, well legs to last to get half of everything you own and then she legs it to something prettier and more appealing, its life as we know it

[IrishSarahBarra]

Dieve's reply I found especially interesting ,

Of course you did, it's what you want to hear 😅

Don't listen to it, he's not Dieve. He needs 20 sessions of therapy to get to the bottom of whatever is going on there, idealisation of escorts (escorts are not real), idealisation of beauty to the detriment of other things, validation from friends to the detriment of other things.