How can an "average guy" get a beautiful wife

[Harry68]

Although in his case maybe faking being someone else would be best although like my weight struggles it will be a lifelong commitment 😂

[Irelandbeautyyy]

There is nothing bad to say she should have some wow factor for him and only him. Why should she impress others? Why does he need to show something to others?

He desires only about some appreciation by others. Why he is not buying a car?

[Dieve]

There is nothing bad to say she should have some wow factor for him and only him. Why should she impress others? Why does he need to show something to others?

He desires only about some appreciation by others. Why he is not buying a car?

I get your reasoning, but I think it was just figure of speech to emphasize her charm. It's easy to get a car. Car doesn't need to consent to be yours. The loving gaze of another person cannot be substituted by anything.

[MistressMonique]

Maybe his shortcomings would be less obvious with a substantial lotto win

[DamoEI]

well the topic is not actually about me- Ive had the occasional success among many struggles with the ladies but hey I know my limitations. so its not about me,

I post on another form and there is a guy South African (not sure if that matters) who describes himself as highly intelligent but boring and lacking charisma, 5' 10 so not especially tall compared to the guys that the hot ladies seem to go for,
He wants a beautiful wife or companion, a lady who is visually highly attractive, carries herself with class and elegance, who is physically fit, can converse on a variety of topics and have a "wow" factor when she accompanies him to dinner parties and social gatherings, a lady who will make his colleagues heads turn when she enters the room.

In summary you could say he wants a lady similar to the ladies that advertise here on Escort Ireland,

Myself and the other posters are finding it difficult to provide him with any inspiration- other than he has to settle for a 6 or 7 out of 10 rather than trying to land the 10- he might settle for a 9 but nothing lower! that he has to base his partner on emotional connection and compatibility rather than looks (but he rejects these advices)

He is an intelligent guy but lacks (in his own words) charisms and charm and is pretty average looking himself- hes not built like a Springbok rugby player. " He is not good enough" he doesnt have the charm and social skills of his friends- he gets invited to the big gatherings but he doesnt have the social skills to do himself justice,

He is highly intelligent, can hold conversations about anything is financially stable but not rich,

Anyway its not happening for him with the girls or at least not with the supermodels he craves,

so my good friends- lads and lassies- how can this guy land the woman of his dreams?

The dude is an utter douche canoe with an unreal sense of entitlement. By his own admission he is a boring, unattractive, charmless, socially awkward short-arse who earns just enough to get by, and is "not good enough" for what he wants. So, at best, he's a 5 or 6 himself, yet he thinks he deserves a 9 or 10?!
Guys like this are the pits, he is just the sort that tries to chat up a girl in a bar, gets rejected, and then proclaims she MUST be a lesbian. I knew a guy just like him, used to bang on endlessly about the absolute models he had slept with, then shows up one day with a new girlfriend who was nothing at all like the girls he described before. He later moved into a flat with this girl and had a kid with her.
He is a fantasist who now believes he is entitled to his fantasies coming true. Even other guys dislike guys like this! It wouldn't surprise me if the guy was a virgin (nothing wrong with that) and that he has a completely skewed notion of what he actually wants. I reckon if this dude got together with a 6 or a 7 he would be delighted with her, but he is afraid his mates will not be impressed. Pathetic.

And as for him being highly intelligent...

[Noregrets]

Maybe his shortcomings would be less obvious with a substantial lotto win

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[Noregrets]

Give me a girl that makes my heart flutter
That is kind generous and humble
A girl who respects others and can hold a serious conversation.

[64west]

The way I look at this is you have to… I mean, “He” will have to bring something to the relationship.

A woman who looks perfect that you personally consider a 10, may have good charisma and be highly confident but she seeks equally value in a partner (if you were born with natural beauty, good for you u lucky cunt, I’m happy for ya)😁
There’s not much you can do when a 10 seeks an equal partner, But….

Another woman that looks perfect to you. Andyou also consider to be a beautiful 10 but she may have some minor insecurities and things like this and just feels more comfortable with herself when she is with a man who she feels secure with (she is a 10 and he may be a 5 or 6, whatever that means. But she choose him for other reasons)

You can find a wife that’s a “10” but you have to have something the works for you to make your 5 looks and 10 humour or muscles or personality to make your total an 8 (again, whatever all that means). Plenty of fish out there to rub fins,? Or something like that.?

And financial wealth is redundant because those that build wealth generally have strong drive, ambition, personality good for building relationships.



Sorry for rambling, I envy those who get their point out in 2 sentences.

[WeeJimmy]

I dont believe so, not in todays world unless she's partially sighted or got mental issues. Even if youre rich, I don't believe the relationship would have legs for long, well legs to last to get half of everything you own and then she legs it to something prettier and more appealing, its life as we know it

[DamoEI]

I want this too.
I also want a job with massive wages for no work, a fridge that magically restocks itself everyday, a pet chihuahua that shits diamonds...oh, and a Bugatti. And not just any Bugatti, Andrew Tate's Bugatti! So I be like "VRRRROOOOOOMMMM" and my friends be like "WOOOOOOOWWWWW"!
Did I mention that I'm highly intellimagent?!