Noregrets (08-04-24), SexyKitty1 (27-03-24)
Corkguykev (07-04-24), Dieve (28-03-24), IAmLIAm (07-04-24), Silvergrey25 (28-03-24), Wolverine (07-04-24)
I'm asked a lot if I'm Irish ...When I say I am and ask why do you want to know, the escort usually replies coz Irish are safe and usually friendly ( Just groom a bit better and the Irish would be Perfect ..lol...)
Wolverine (07-04-24)
I used to ask all the time - making conversation and genuinely like meeting people from around the world and chatting about 'stuff'. Makes no odds to me where she's from, however I noticed a couple of girls getting really uncomfortable or defensive, so I stopped. Maybe if we met a few times I could bring it up.
Dieve (07-04-24)
Let's not beat around the bush here, there are certain nationalities and cultures that treat women like cattle. I don't blame girls on here for asking questions about prospective clients, every appointment is a potential risk. You read stories of girls being attacked or stabbed in their apartments and, invariably, the name of the culprit is pretty predictable. And it ain't Paddy O'Brien!
And, before anyone jumps in to virtue-signal, I have been asked my race on 3 occasions. Not my nationality, my race, and told openly by one girl that a certain race was not serviced. Now I can walk away after reading that, and dismiss them as "racist", or I can just accept they have their life experiences and issues (that I don't have to consider) and let them make their own decisions on their own clientele.
It comes back to the "gay wedding cake" story. I don't have a problem with gay people, but do I think a Christian baker should be compelled to bake a cake for a gay wedding? I don't. I don't think any labour should be forced if the person has a problem with it, regardless of whose feelings it hurts. It's the same here. Her body, her choice, right?
Cleo25 (09-04-24), Corkguykev (07-04-24), Corsasport (07-04-24), FetishCherry (08-04-24), Lighthearted2022 (07-04-24), Nayce (07-04-24), SexyKitty1 (08-04-24), Wolverine (07-04-24)
Why not ask ? Simple question? If you don't want to answer hang up an call another escort.
DamoEI (07-04-24), SexyKitty1 (08-04-24)
Well, here's my bisexual wedding cake.
We're naturally coded to follow patterns as a survival instinct. I understand that if someone has had negative experiences with certain nationalities, their gut feeling is compelling them to rather avoid them after a while altogether.
It happened to me too that a certain nationality caused me serious trouble, so when the next day someone from the same country and same age group tried to book me, my sixth sense lit up that they might be connected, sending his friend to take revenge. I was alarmed, but accepted the guy with extra caution, and guess what, he was a completely good boy. The next week I told this story to my regular from the same country. He totally understood, and told me that safety is first, so I shouldn't feel bad about rejecting people sometimes if something doesn't sit well, even if the alarming pattern is their country. Another client went one step further, and dropped a golden nugget:
"Feel bad. Feeling bad is better than dead."
Irish guys are the best clients? Hahaha... 😹 The best AND worst, simply because they are the biggest pool, more probability that the whole panoply of vibes are represented by the local lads. So, would the flagban work in this case? We'd starve, lol. It's true that we gotta make a quick judgement on little information whether to invite someone into our living space, so if some girls try to make their lives less stressful by automatically refusing certain flags, I respect that. More boys left for the rest of us. I don't want to miss out on good boys 🤷🏻
Recent convo with a client, flag changed out of respect.
- I'm Martian myself, but I'd never visit Martian girls.
- I could be Martian too.
- Nah babe, you don't have the Martian accent.
- That's precisely the best way to hide that I'm Martian...
- Nah babe, you never lose the accent.
- I never had it.
- I don't believe you.
- Fine. I'll tell you the truth. I'm actually from Pluto.
- Haha, but you're blue.
- My parents are blue.
- Why would blues be on Pluto?
- Blues can be anywhere, just like you weren't born here, bro.
D gardener (08-04-24), IAmLIAm (08-04-24)