Escort for in-depth lessons to improve technique (multiple sessions, Cork)

[FredBiscuits]

You could always ask the woman to work on developing your sex technique. Seeing as you are only hooking up, what else are you "bringing to the table" that makes her come back? I can see it being true in a relationship that you could make up for decent-but-not-spectacular sex with other qualities... But in a hook up situation, what else is there?

Early on in my live I had a older partner, who knew what she wanted, and wasn't afraid to "train" me to get it... And although as everyone says above, every partner since has been different, the core of her lessons has held true for the most part.

[Noregrets]

Thank you. I’m glad to know I’m not alone with my assessment of her words.

It’s definitely going to make things awkward going forward. It’s a pity cause I know that person as more than just a fuck buddy.

I actually don’t mind criticism if it’s constructive (hence my post). She just made it sound out of reach.

And yes, I know a lot of this is probably about confidence. But i like self improvement and this has very much lit a fire in my belly. At the bare minimum, it will have me back in the gym.

But since having experiences with women of EI over the past year, it’s really opened my eyes just how skillful a person can be at giving pleasure. I feel like a few hours of guidance (where it’s not about my pleasure) would do me the world of good

It's easy actually, when you are touching a woman's clit either with your fingers or tongue, ask her to guide you so.that you get it right. She will appreciate it.

Regards using your Penis inside her you have no.control over.where it touches etc, so maybe see would prefer.to.sit on you and be in control.

[ArcaneAlex]

I think you need to go back to the root cause of this problem ( pardon the pun )

You hurt her feelings first!!?

she may are may not have developed feelings for you but either way your comment was you giving her notice that your arrangement was temporary and basically she's not worth the effort of anything other than that!?

bring her a big bunch of her favourite flowers or some other gift
Apologize and tell her you have realised your previous comments were extremely insensitive and ask her to forgive you

Good luck either way

I appreciate your feedback but I have to emphasize that you're inferring a lot about my situation that isn't true.

I know this person a very long time. Not close friends but share social circles + each others company for many years. So we talk plenty outside the bedroom.
She was the person to instigate this situation and set clear expectations and boundaries. So yes, I can joke about the temporary nature of it. It's her terms. She has been my wing women on many a night out since and has tried to set me up with mutuals more than once. She is under no illusion as to what this is.

I'm 99% certain that were I to rock up with flowers, it would freak her out and she'd do a runner

Anyway I've had a chance to sleep another night on it and am less bothered now. I think she was just trying to say that a woman would want me for more than sex, but she blundered her wording and put me down in the process. When I pressed she was honest cause that's her personality, direct (and unfortunately for me, cutting). But it's preciously because of how direct she is that I always know where I stand with her.

But my main request still stands - I want a lady in Cork with good communication skills that I can practice with (with a focus on giving rather than receiving pleasure). People come on EI with all sorts of requests. I think me looking for an experienced lady to help me up my game seems fairly reasonable.

[ArcaneAlex]

what else are you "bringing to the table" that makes her come back?

But in a hook up situation, what else is there?

My fault for not giving more context. We are same social circle, not some randomer i met from an app. She knows me years. So she knows my career, personality, hobbies and that's what she was referencing as bringing to the table. She meant that in the bigger picture, i have enough going on for women to want a relationship with me

She doesn't want anything more from me. She just finds dating exhausting, we live close, meet each others attractiveness criteria, there's no drama.

[AmorInfinito8]

I appreciate your feedback but I have to emphasize that you're inferring a lot about my situation that isn't true.

I know this person a very long time. Not close friends but share social circles + each others company for many years. So we talk plenty outside the bedroom.
She was the person to instigate this situation and set clear expectations and boundaries. So yes, I can joke about the temporary nature of it. It's her terms. She has been my wing women on many a night out since and has tried to set me up with mutuals more than once. She is under no illusion as to what this is.

I'm 99% certain that were I to rock up with flowers, it would freak her out and she'd do a runner

Anyway I've had a chance to sleep another night on it and am less bothered now. I think she was just trying to say that a woman would want me for more than sex, but she blundered her wording and put me down in the process. When I pressed she was honest cause that's her personality, direct (and unfortunately for me, cutting). But it's preciously because of how direct she is that I always know where I stand with her.

But my main request still stands - I want a lady in Cork with good communication skills that I can practice with (with a focus on giving rather than receiving pleasure). People come on EI with all sorts of requests. I think me looking for an experienced lady to help me up my game seems fairly reasonable.

Well I did say
"I may be wrong in how I'm reading into this"

I think me looking for an experienced lady to help me up my game seems fairly reasonable

Your request seems pretty reasonable to me
But then again it's not me getting into bed with you

Although I do feel your possibly making to much of this!?
We're all crap in bed we just like to fool ourselves that we are stud's

Good sex bad sex and everything in-between all depend on chemistry connection click
something that can't be taught learnt or even planned

It either happens or it doesn't
it could happen once with a partner and not on the next occasion
There are too many variables

I suppose working on technic couldn't hurt
I'm by no means an expert


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[red69]

You know, the original premise, helping to improve, isn't the worst idea around. Theres surely merit in exploring it with SP that the client is comfortable with, and I have no doubt it would add to the encounter, when both know each other well enough. I'd be on for it. Think it would be fun!

[Thoreau]

I'm surprised Irish Sarah Barra has not been in touch - ideal for you here in Cork - just what you need!!!

[ArcaneAlex]

I'm surprised Irish Sarah Barra has not been in touch - ideal for you here in Cork - just what you need!!!

Got excited for a moment. First recommendation in this thread Unfortunately based on a search of the forum, it seems Irish Sarah Barra retired. Cheers for the throwing out a recommendation though.

Still no obvious choice in Cork. But I guess that’s also understandable cause most ladies tour here, and are not based here for an extended period

[Thoreau]

Got excited for a moment. First recommendation in this thread Unfortunately based on a search of the forum, it seems Irish Sarah Barra retired. Cheers for the throwing out a recommendation though.

Still no obvious choice in Cork. But I guess that’s also understandable cause most ladies tour here, and are not based here for an extended period

I do apologise for misleading you on this one - it was a bit "tongue in cheek", but occasionally ISB does advertise and is highly regarded on the Forum. Good luck in your endeavours!

[IrishSarahBarra]

My ego is too delicate to be turned down answering client requests 😳😅 I've answered one in 8 years, someone who thought he was a big guy. I don't know which kind of big. I was feeling adventurous and had the impression we'd get on really well. He should have said yes.