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MidlifeCrisis
I've heard it said that men respond more to physical turn-ons and women to mental ones, but imagination and mental things are important for us too, and for me as well a slow build-up makes for the best visits. I think that when people talk about a "mechanical" encounter it usually means something like your description.
I have occasionally had to ask a girl to slow down, but luckily most have good instincts for this and don't need to be asked.
I often look at reviews to see how long a girl's appointments tend to be. Ladies that are used to longer appointments are more likely to offer true gfe.